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Old 04-07-2010, 08:31 PM
 
Location: The Mango Tree
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There are those times when you meet someone and it quickly dawns on you that you will likely have nothing in common with this person. It's obvious before you've even had a long conversation with the person. After you've had that long conversation, you're thoughts are confirmed. You want A; he/she wants B. We're talking practically complete opposites.

However, the one thing that keeps you interested in and around this person is that you are insanely attracted to this person's body. It's simply a work of art and you know that if this person started to become a bit flabby, all attraction would evacuate faster than a building on fire. But it's not flabby now. It's. . . sigh.

Yes, this is such textbook definition of lust. It never ceases to amaze me how strong hormones can be sometimes. Part of me wants to give in, but I also don't want to create a victim in the process.
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Old 04-07-2010, 08:33 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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There are those times when you meet someone and it quickly dawns on you that you will likely have nothing in common with this person. It's obvious before you've even had a long conversation with the person. After you've had that long conversation, you're thoughts are confirmed. You want A; he/she wants B. We're talking practically complete opposites.

However, the one thing that keeps you interested in and around this person is that you are insanely attracted to this person's body. It's simply a work of art and you know that if this person started to become a bit flabby, all attraction would evacuate faster than a building on fire. But it's not flabby now. It's. . . sigh.

Yes, this is such textbook definition of lust. It never ceases to amaze me how strong hormones can be sometimes. Part of me wants to give in, but I also don't want to create a victim in the process.
Get away from the gym boy, kiddo
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Old 04-07-2010, 08:35 PM
 
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There are those times when you meet someone and it quickly dawns on you that you will likely have nothing in common with this person. It's obvious before you've even had a long conversation with the person. After you've had that long conversation, you're thoughts are confirmed. You want A; he/she wants B. We're talking practically complete opposites.

However, the one thing that keeps you interested in and around this person is that you are insanely attracted to this person's body. It's simply a work of art and you know that if this person started to become a bit flabby, all attraction would evacuate faster than a building on fire. But it's not flabby now. It's. . . sigh.

Yes, this is such textbook definition of lust. It never ceases to amaze me how strong hormones can be sometimes. Part of me wants to give in, but I also don't want to create a victim in the process.
If you do give in, you're using this non-flabby individual to sate a hunger not unlike you "use" food to sate actual hunger. Difference is, there may be a pretty messy aftermath - and it may be messier on your side than on his.
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Old 04-07-2010, 08:44 PM
 
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Ah lust, we all have it to some degree. As long as you are up front with the person about it and they still agree there shouldn't be a problem with it. It's when you hide or deceive the person about your attraction to them where the problems begin. Seger even wrote a song about it!

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Old 04-07-2010, 08:58 PM
 
Location: Dallas, Texas
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If you do give in, you're using this non-flabby individual to sate a hunger not unlike you "use" food to sate actual hunger. Difference is, there may be a pretty messy aftermath - and it may be messier on your side than on his.
^Yep! Good post.
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Old 04-07-2010, 09:39 PM
 
Location: NC
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If you do give in, you're using this non-flabby individual to sate a hunger not unlike you "use" food to sate actual hunger. Difference is, there may be a pretty messy aftermath - and it may be messier on your side than on his.
This sums it up pretty well.
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Old 04-07-2010, 09:48 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I don't know... My lust is never based on body alone. I may realize he's the wrongest of wrong people, but it can't be just about the body.

However, the best way to get rid of sinful thoughts is to indulge in the sin! You see, you're likely to be disappointed and everything comes back to normal. Otherwise, you'd keep having the "what if" thoughts...
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Old 04-07-2010, 09:54 PM
 
Location: Up North
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Enjoy it while you can. When you get really old and grey, you'll look back at your time together fondly.
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Old 04-07-2010, 10:08 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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"GO fer The Gusto Darlin"

"Life Is Short"

"ENJoy"





If You need any Instruction, DM me...
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Old 04-07-2010, 10:23 PM
 
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Just go for it. Pure unadultered lust doesn't come knocking all the time. At least for me it doesn't. Enjoy riding him, cowgirl.
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