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View Poll Results: Which is more attractive to women?
Looks 29 43.28%
Money 38 56.72%
Voters: 67. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 03-18-2012, 09:21 PM
 
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Looks and intelligence are positively correlated? Ok. On how many studies? Why have I rarely seen this in a small enough HS and college where you pretty much knew people's class standing? I didn't see many women that were really attractive that were above the B/B+ GPA mark. Perhaps another study would be to measure whether these attractive intelligent people applied themselves? I think there is definitely an inverse correlation here. They expect handouts, positions through connections, and people to fawn over them.

I will agree that looks and earning ability are positively correlated. If you go into corporate sales, marketing, advertising, P/R, or the less technically sophisticated areas of financial services, the attractive people do well because people want to be around them, people want to socialize with them, and thus hand them business or accounts. That's for the most part who you see changing planes in airport concourses, texting or having a very rehearsed sounding conversation on their cell phone. God forbid they tried something more "technical." For someone who is marginal or average on the looks scale, choose a technical occupation, where your ability to make money is more correlated to "what you know." Though this won't guarantee you the mate of your choosing.

Oh, yeah, and if they have to measure attractiveness for psychological studies, then they have to rank people: 10, 9, 8, 7, etc., right?

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Old 03-18-2012, 09:41 PM
 
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I highly doubt the poll was voted strictly by women..

A person can look good, not have much money and still be just as undateable as a person who's loaded, not so good looking- both having undesirable personal qualities..

A partnership for life goes beyond superficiality. It's not to say that if both guys had great personalities, then it wouldn't work- depends the chemistry (emotional, psychological, physical)..
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Old 03-18-2012, 10:08 PM
 
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Money.
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Old 03-18-2012, 10:29 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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Money.
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Old 03-18-2012, 10:40 PM
 
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I have good looks except that I'm short, so I can't win there. I have lots of money though but I still don't attract women all that easily. So I would say neither of those alone (or even together) will win you women. Those things are just not on the top of their list. Confidence is by far the #1 thing they go for.
It's extremely tough for even a short rich man since height is very very very important. I agree that confidence is the key but being taller helps a lot, you have to be extraordinary in everything else if you are a short man that aspires to pull women that taller men who look like you get.
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Old 03-18-2012, 11:05 PM
 
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I think most people will take money over looks any day. Looks will fade & even the most gorgeous looking people get cheated on still, so looks aren't everything. However, on all these forensic TV shows, look how many people will kill their spouse at the drop of a hat for the insurance money & they've many times been having affairs w/ others anyway. Also, look how many women you see w/ the old, bald, fossil face, who's RICH.

Many women just like to be able to be pampered, shop, travel, get lavish gifts, be wined & dined. That can't be done if the man doesn't have money.
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Old 03-19-2012, 12:35 AM
 
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What kind of six-figure salary? Major difference between someone making $115k and someone making $675k.

In any event, women will most likely choose guy A if they're just looking for a fun time; they'll most likely choose guy B if looking for something long time.
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Old 03-19-2012, 01:06 AM
 
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What kind of six-figure salary? Major difference between someone making $115k and someone making $675k.

In any event, women will most likely choose guy A if they're just looking for a fun time; they'll most likely choose guy B if looking for something long time.
Guy making $115K could be more richer then $675K.
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Old 03-19-2012, 01:49 AM
 
Location: Armsanta Sorad
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I think most people will take money over looks any day. Looks will fade & even the most gorgeous looking people get cheated on still, so looks aren't everything. However, on all these forensic TV shows, look how many people will kill their spouse at the drop of a hat for the insurance money & they've many times been having affairs w/ others anyway. Also, look how many women you see w/ the old, bald, fossil face, who's RICH.

Many women just like to be able to be pampered, shop, travel, get lavish gifts, be wined & dined. That can't be done if the man doesn't have money.
That is so true.
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Old 03-19-2012, 04:37 AM
 
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Looks and intelligence are positively correlated? Ok. On how many studies? Why have I rarely seen this in a small enough HS and college where you pretty much knew people's class standing? I didn't see many women that were really attractive that were above the B/B+ GPA mark. Perhaps another study would be to measure whether these attractive intelligent people applied themselves? I think there is definitely an inverse correlation here. They expect handouts, positions through connections, and people to fawn over them.
Did you read the article and dig up the studies noted in the article? That may help answer some of your questions.
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