Long-Distance International Relationship: Need Help!

[Chanteuse d' Opéra]

Originally Posted by spinx

If I remember correctly, you have a habit of choosing not so great men. Based on your history, I would say that you shouldn't ruin your career and life to move to another country for a man who can't even get a job.

However, if you're set on doing it, you need to research your options. You're a teacher and you might have some great chances to get on as an English teacher/tutor (you can sometimes get free room, too).

This man is a gentleman, is very dear to my heart, and I've already presented him to my family and friends and they approve. I will be going to his country to meet his family and friends. He cares a lot about me and I, him.

We've discussed options for residency and work in the United States with an immigration lawyer but I think he would prefer me living with him in his country as he's been out of work due to his country's high unemployment.

The thing is, I've never pressured him about marriage or babies (surprise surprise!) He told me he wanted to marry me multiple times and doesn't want anyone else to have me. But, he needs a job first...

I guess, this summer when I go stay with him, time will tell.

[Chanteuse d' Opéra]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

Hey, that's Southern Europe! La Mamma will adopt her, too, and will cook for both of them!

Actually, that's true! He told me that his mom will be cooking everyday for us

[jaylus20]

Long distance relationships are difficult but you can make it work. I have been in a long distance relationship before and i found that communication is key. You have to talk on a regular basis, some days you even have to give your partner a play by play of you whole day just to make them feel like they are part of your life.

As for moving to Europe with him that's a big decision but one thing i know is if you really love someone you can make it work anywhere in the world. Good luck with everything.