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Though many women won't admit *it*. They don't really like a "nice guy" in the end. He's a wuss and can be controlled too easily. Some men, you can't put in a cage! Tie him down with a log chain around the neck. He might even break that~ xD
Well she expects too much from me, i have put up with her insecurities and clingyness for three years. she once entertained one admirer that led to a kiss in the end during the break she had requested. While on the other hand i have been so fair to her and faithful despite that, she did not trust me and still makes wrong assumptions.
I even trusted her even though i knew she had a fling with someone else..now during the arguments i would bring up somethings of her wrong doings, she would answer me verbal abusively and tells me to man up...because of the love i have for her that's why am still with her but i want her to change her insecurities and i guess i'll do my part to man up what ever that means..
Now this deserve a Man Up and a Package Check. One thing in life is no one else can make you happy. People tend to treat you as you let them. I gotta ask this. If she is treating you like this now how will she treat you if you got married?
In closing Man UP and after leaving the shower stand in front of the mirror in a natural state, then grab your package and ask yourself who's the man? LOL.. In closing once a woman loses respect for you it's over. Your just there until she finds someone else.
Well she expects too much from me, i have put up with her insecurities and clingyness for three years. she once entertained one admirer that led to a kiss in the end during the break she had requested. While on the other hand i have been so fair to her and faithful despite that, she did not trust me and still makes wrong assumptions.
I even trusted her even though i knew she had a fling with someone else..now during the arguments i would bring up somethings of her wrong doings, she would answer me verbal abusively and tells me to man up...because of the love i have for her that's why am still with her but i want her to change her insecurities and i guess i'll do my part to man up what ever that means..
Your part will never be enough for someone who isn't complete with herself. So, you can choose to live with just what you described, or move on to a healthier life alone or with someone who doesn't have all that baggage.
If he's a grown, able bodied man sitting on his parents couch all day playing X-Box, man up. If he is beating on his wife, man up. If he turns into a 4 year old brat every time there is conflict, man up. Don't shoot the messenger for pointing out the obvious, especially if that behavior is interfering with someone else's happiness or even their own well being.
The only issue I have with what you just said is that males are expected to always be the stereotypical hard working provider, and anything less, we're losers and we need to "man up".
Meanwhile, women can get way with being lazy on a scale that is much worse then many of the guys they complain about because they often live rent free (or just paying for food) with their boyfriends for many years but nobody looks down on them, or shames them, for not pulling their own weight.
I need more information before I try to determine whether you're doing something wrong and need to "man up". What kinds of things do you argue about? What does SHE get after you for?
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One thing in life is no one else can make you happy. People tend to treat you as you let them. I gotta ask this. If she is treating you like this now how will she treat you if you got married?
LOL.. In closing once a woman loses respect for you it's over. Your just there until she finds someone else.
