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Why do guys like me have to play games and lie in the beginning just to get the drawers. We have to act like where interested in your personality and what you have to say when in reality all we want are the cheeks??
If a guy is upfront about his intentions..why do most women get offended...
I'm not talking about if she finds him absolutely hideous and wants nothing to do with him; I'm referring to the situation where she shows interest in the guy but all he's looking for is happy hour.
I know its not all women. There are some women who want the same thing as us guys but I'm just talking about the ones who don't appreciate your brutal; honesty in our motives.
"So do you want to hang out or go to the movies>"
"No not really."
" So what do you want to do?"
"I kind want to just cut to the chase."
"?..chase"
"You want to spend the night at my place."
" I was hoping to get to know you." (You've known me for 2 weeks)
"...........: rolleyes:"
Its 2012. You can divorce....the double standards are diminishing between the genders. If you have sex with 2 guys in your lifetime your not labeled a Sl*T anymore.
I shouldn't have to wait 3 centuries, 2,000,000 phone conversations, 17,000,000 text messages exchanges and 15,000 walks in the parks just to get the drawers..
Instead men like me are labeled as dogs, demons, hell spawns and bottome feeders just because where trying to satisfy our neurological and biological needs to reproduce..*sigh*
Well what do you guys think ? Can you relate?
Wait hold on * puts on flame shield, flame helmet, and flame armor*
I think "using" anyone is a big deal no matter what year it is. I'm not sure why it would ever be okay to use someone on purpose. This post makes you sound like a jerk. If you just want a piece then go get a hooker or go find some woman in a bar who wants the same thing you do. Whatever.
I think "using" anyone is a big deal no matter what year it is. I'm not sure why it would ever be okay to use someone on purpose. This post makes you sound like a jerk. If you just want a piece then go get a hooker or go find some woman in a bar who wants the same thing you do. Whatever.
This, exactly. It's the word 'use' that bothers me. I've done the casual sex thing and that's great, because it was mutually consented upon. The op makes í sound like he's leading these women on, making them like him, finally having sex with them and then leaving when he got what he wanted.
To all the men who complain about women with 'baggage' and dealing with 'emotional problem', the op is the type of guy you need to talk to. Guys like that are causing many of the problems.
Because the majority of women can get 'just sex' easily, so getting laid is not an accomplishment for them. They want more.
The majority of men cannot get sex that easily, so it is an accomplishment to them.
Women will hook up and even throw themselves at attractive guys pretty quickly. They just might wait to 'give it up' to present more of a challenge. But all in all, it's not really that much different from the game you are playing.
And men like you do fine.
I'm the guy who ends up getting to know her and then she blows me off and ends up with you.
Why do guys like me have to play games and lie in the beginning just to get the drawers. We have to act like where interested in your personality and what you have to say when in reality all we want are the cheeks??
If a guy is upfront about his intentions..why do most women get offended...
I'm not talking about if she finds him absolutely hideous and wants nothing to do with him; I'm referring to the situation where she shows interest in the guy but all he's looking for is happy hour.
I know its not all women. There are some women who want the same thing as us guys but I'm just talking about the ones who don't appreciate your brutal; honesty in our motives.
"So do you want to hang out or go to the movies>"
"No not really."
" So what do you want to do?"
"I kind want to just cut to the chase."
"?..chase"
"You want to spend the night at my place."
" I was hoping to get to know you." (You've known me for 2 weeks)
"...........: rolleyes:"
Its 2012. You can divorce....the double standards are diminishing between the genders. If you have sex with 2 guys in your lifetime your not labeled a Sl*T anymore.
I shouldn't have to wait 3 centuries, 2,000,000 phone conversations, 17,000,000 text messages exchanges and 15,000 walks in the parks just to get the drawers..
Instead men like me are labeled as dogs, demons, hell spawns and bottome feeders just because where trying to satisfy our neurological and biological needs to reproduce..*sigh*
Well what do you guys think ? Can you relate?
Wait hold on * puts on flame shield, flame helmet, and flame armor*
ok.
Why do people throw 'it's 2012' into everything like that makes a difference?...Anyway, I guess b/c a guy is 'honest and upfront' about his intentions that's supposed to soften the blow that he only wants to use you as a c*m dumpster? Riiiiight.....There are however some real 'questionable' broads that will go for this type of thing and the speech you just gave and all...so keep looking.
and FYI: they're never 'honest and up front' about their intentions in the first place....
Man, I'm a guy and I'm offended by the term. It means that you value the other person only for the momentary pleasure you can derive from her, and then she's disposable.
Users of any and all descriptions are creepy. But there is a special breed of creepiness when someone basically uses another person as an agent of glorified masturbation, sticking around only long enough to make her pregnant or pass along an STD.
Why do guys like me have to play games and lie in the beginning just to get the drawers. We have to act like where interested in your personality and what you have to say when in reality all we want are the cheeks??
If a guy is upfront about his intentions..why do most women get offended...
I'm not talking about if she finds him absolutely hideous and wants nothing to do with him; I'm referring to the situation where she shows interest in the guy but all he's looking for is happy hour.
I know its not all women. There are some women who want the same thing as us guys but I'm just talking about the ones who don't appreciate your brutal; honesty in our motives.
"So do you want to hang out or go to the movies>"
"No not really."
" So what do you want to do?"
"I kind want to just cut to the chase."
"?..chase"
"You want to spend the night at my place."
" I was hoping to get to know you." (You've known me for 2 weeks)
"...........: rolleyes:"
Its 2012. You can divorce....the double standards are diminishing between the genders. If you have sex with 2 guys in your lifetime your not labeled a Sl*T anymore.
I shouldn't have to wait 3 centuries, 2,000,000 phone conversations, 17,000,000 text messages exchanges and 15,000 walks in the parks just to get the drawers..
Instead men like me are labeled as dogs, demons, hell spawns and bottome feeders just because where trying to satisfy our neurological and biological needs to reproduce..*sigh*
Well what do you guys think ? Can you relate?
Wait hold on * puts on flame shield, flame helmet, and flame armor*
ok.
Seriously? You have to ask??
Perhaps we just don't like being used.
It's 2012. You don't have to use a human being as a sex toy.
Veyron, I think I met your mother a few years ago and she said it was OK.
Seriously, you have to ask such stupid questions ?
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