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Old 03-31-2012, 11:32 PM
 
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Ya, I think you're right. Being thin only matters to men in places like LA and NY it seems, then again, that could be wrong too.
Those are the only two places I've seen it matter too. And Europe.

 
Old 03-31-2012, 11:35 PM
 
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They both can have big ones. I think men might think they stand a better chance of keeping a curvy or larger women as she has more to lose. Some guys are tired of getting dumped, ya know. I can see it with some of the guys I know. I've seen some really good looking women that they have gotten that were thirty or so pounds overweight. If it's all in the right places, many men don't mind.
well women who carry their weight well are more on the thick and curvy side than fat. but if men date these fat women cause they think they'll stick around, that's pretty insulting, isn't it?
 
Old 03-31-2012, 11:36 PM
 
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Ya, I think you're right. Being thin only matters to men in places like LA and NY it seems, then again, that could be wrong too.
When I was on the dating sites, almost every mans profile said something along the lines of they wanted thin, slender, petite, athletic and that they were not into BBW. Abd I'm a long ways from LA or NY
 
Old 03-31-2012, 11:37 PM
 
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Those are the only two places I've seen it matter too. And Europe.
haven't been to europe but I hear its very walkable and food there is healthy so I imagine its hard to even keep weight on there anyways.
 
Old 03-31-2012, 11:39 PM
 
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When I was on the dating sites, almost every mans profile said something along the lines of they wanted thin, slender, petite, athletic and that they were not into BBW. Abd I'm a long ways from LA or NY
that's kinda what I noticed. but that's not what I see men going after. I do have slender friends who are in relationships but the ones keeping them (as in engaged/married) are the fat ones, well except for a small few of my friends.
 
Old 03-31-2012, 11:40 PM
 
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Depends on how fat the fat girl is and if she has a pretty face. If its a girl 30 lbs overweight with a face like Cindy Crawford, it's not that much harder to get guys. Even repulsively fat ugly women can get guys. My old boss was 100 lbs overweight, had a pug face and smelled bad but she had a husband. This girl in my hs was 300 lbs and she got pregnant when she was 16 and married the guy. Some guys are really hard up and will nail anything. Also some ethnic communities give a bit more leeway on weight, like blacks, Latinos and Arabs.
 
Old 03-31-2012, 11:40 PM
 
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well women who carry their weight well are more on the thick and curvy side than fat. but if men date these fat women cause they think they'll stick around, that's pretty insulting, isn't it?
All the guys I run around like medium to slightly thick. It's not skinny, not fat...just about right plus or minus a few pounds. I'd say about 20 to throw a number out of my hat. Medium build women seem to be better cooks as well. Those Frenchmen who dig the rail skinny ones with -A ciup boobs are whacked in the head. Women aren't supposed to look like that. I'm sure they would b*tch about what was for dinner all the time too. I don't need or want foo-foo. I want food dammit!! LOL
 
Old 03-31-2012, 11:45 PM
 
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All the guys I run around like medium to slightly thick. It's not skinny, not fat...just about right plus or minus a few pounds. I'd say about 20 to throw a number out of my hat. Medium build women seem to be better cooks as well. Those Frenchmen who dig the rail skinny ones with -A ciup boobs are whacked in the head. Women aren't supposed to look like that. I'm sure they would b*tch about what was for dinner all the time too. I don't need or want foo-foo. I want food dammit!! LOL
ya that makes a lot of sense.
 
Old 03-31-2012, 11:46 PM
 
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When I was having problems with my thyroid, I weighed myself and got to 140 pounds. I felt like a balloon, I had never been so fat. Strangely enough, when I would go walking somewhere, the men on the streets were throwing themselves at me like birds in mating season. Hot guys, ugly guys, normal guys, weird guys, everybody! And no, my boobs were not that ginormous, just my waistline. Then I started taking bladderwrack leaves to nourish my thyroid and fix it naturally. Immediately I got back to my original weight, and guys were still giving me the usual attention, but not like when I was feeling like a pizza.

I think guys feel more comfortable talking to average sized women, than they do thin women. That's the impression I got.
 
Old 03-31-2012, 11:51 PM
 
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This is why white women have eating disorders and starve themselves.
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