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This is probably geared more towards married people, but singles can participate.
Considering there are probably a number of threads about husbands and wives not having the same sex drive, it got me thinking. Usually there is one person saying they are not getting enough for whatever reason.
My question is, which sex life would you prefer? For simplicity we will go with two types, Type A and Type B.
Type A is the kind of sex life where it happens very frequently, but one person feels its an obligation. So the sex is there, but its more of just going through the motions to satisfy one person. Usually only lasts a few minutes, and when its over someone's going to sleep, and the other is looking for the TV remote.
Type B on the other hand the sex may not happen that often, but when it does its absolutely mind blowing for both. It can last from a few minutes to a few hours but both people are totally into it and is absolutely intense. When this sex is over neither of you can move from sheer exhaustion and bliss.
So would you prefer it all the time, but its "meh", or only ocaasionaly, but when it happens its "OMG!"
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This is probably geared more towards married people, but singles can participate.
Considering there are probably a number of threads about husbands and wives not having the same sex drive, it got me thinking. Usually there is one person saying they are not getting enough for whatever reason.
My question is, which sex life would you prefer? For simplicity we will go with two types, Type A and Type B.
Type A is the kind of sex life where it happens very frequently, but one person feels its an obligation. So the sex is there, but its more of just going through the motions to satisfy one person. Usually only lasts a few minutes, and when its over someone's going to sleep, and the other is looking for the TV remote.
Type B on the other hand the sex may not happen that often, but when it does its absolutely mind blowing for both. It can last from a few minutes to a few hours but both people are totally into it and is absolutely intense. When this sex is over neither of you can move from sheer exhaustion and bliss.
So would you prefer it all the time, but its "meh", or only ocaasionaly, but when it happens its "OMG!"
Without ANY hesitation, TYPE B BABY!!! Just the thought of patience in between "sessions" paying off with earth-shaking rewards just......WHEW!!
This is probably geared more towards married people, but singles can participate.
So would you prefer it all the time, but its "meh", or only ocaasionaly, but when it happens its "OMG!"
I'm not married (if it matters to you for any reason), but I've always preferred quality over quantity in any area. In fact, constant sex is a turn-off to me - it's more like a chore and a work-out; both tedious and boring. There's more to life than that.
Another false dichotomy style choice. <sigh> I'm glad I don't have to choose from your choices, when I have Type C - the best of both! And where's Type D: infrequent, so-so sex? It seems like that's what most people report!
It's like: Pick one of:
A: die slowly with moderate pain
B: die quickly but very painfully
I'm not married (if it matters to you for any reason), but I've always preferred quality over quantity in any area. In fact, constant sex is a turn-off to me - it's more like a chore and a work-out; both tedious and boring. There's more to life than that.
I agree. It's not about the "deed" itself but the quality and the emotion that goes with it, at least for me. If it's just about getting ones rocks off then me and my pal Buster would have a more frequent relationship. And when it's every day, I would think the luster gets lost a lot quicker. How does one keep it spiced up every day?
I live in the Type B world now. Having a four year old around has put us in that category. We have to choose our moments carefully. The little stays the night at her grandparents and it is on!
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