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Old 06-09-2012, 05:55 PM
 
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To you.

I had GREAT sex with my ex.
Mindblowing.
In fact, might have been the best sex I ever had with anyone.

THAT WAS NOT enough.

But I guess since I don't think with a penis...
Note that I said "at least 60%", not "100%." If you had great sex and the relationship still failed, that means there was a problem involving that other 40%.
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Old 06-09-2012, 05:56 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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To you.

I had GREAT sex with my ex.
Mindblowing.
In fact, might have been the best sex I ever had with anyone.

THAT WAS NOT enough.

But I guess since I don't think with a penis...
You must spread some reputation around before giving it to stan4 again
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Old 06-09-2012, 05:58 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Note that I said "at least 60%", not "100%." If you had great sex and the relationship still failed, that means there was a problem involving that other 40%.
Some of us will bend on the sex part if the rest is really good.

Saying sex is 60% of a relationship puts it in a position of WAAAAYYY too much importance.

It's important, yes. It's not THAT important.

I get it. To you, it's that important.
So important, in fact, that you will forego creating and sustaining a real connection with any woman so that you can recreate the novelty of a new sexual encounter over and over again.

That's your deal.

The relationship 'failed' because guess what...? For a lot of us well-adjusted folks, you have to feel good about and respect the person you're going to have sex with. You have to feel connected and close. What does that say about the millions of women who are willing to have sex with you?
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Old 06-09-2012, 05:58 PM
 
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Sure, people have managed to do it, but I wouldn't say it's "natural" as the people who have done it probably had a lot of self discipline to resist any temptation that came their way. Being monogamous is like eating your favorite food everyday or watching your favorite movie everyday for years and years. Do you know of anyone who eats their favorite food everyday for years and years? If not, why don't they?
For your own sake stop, I'm getting embarrassed for you

It's fine if YOU feel this way about YOUR relationships - but you simply cannot tell others what is not natural for them.
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Old 06-09-2012, 06:05 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Some of us will bend on the sex part if the rest is really good.

Saying sex is 60% of a relationship puts it in a position of WAAAAYYY too much importance.

It's important, yes. It's not THAT important.

I get it. To you, it's that important.
So important, in fact, that you will forego creating and sustaining a real connection with any woman so that you can recreate the novelty of a new sexual encounter over and over again.

That's your deal.

The relationship 'failed' because guess what...? For a lot of us well-adjusted folks, you have to feel good about and respect the person you're going to have sex with. You have to feel connected and close. What does that say about the millions of women who are willing to have sex with you?
Damn. I repped your preceding post on this thread when this one is even better.
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Old 06-09-2012, 06:06 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Damn. I repped your preceding post on this thread when this one is even better.


That's the problem with stan4's posts...it's like trying to pick a flavor at Baskin Robbins...

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 06-09-2012, 06:06 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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that's the problem with stan4's posts...it's like trying to pick a flavor at baskin robbins...

Lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!:d
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Old 06-09-2012, 06:10 PM
 
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Originally Posted by stan4 View Post
some of us will bend on the sex part if the rest is really good.

Saying sex is 60% of a relationship puts it in a position of waaaayyy too much importance.

It's important, yes. It's not that important.

I get it. To you, it's that important.
So important, in fact, that you will forego creating and sustaining a real connection with any woman so that you can recreate the novelty of a new sexual encounter over and over again.

That's your deal.

The relationship 'failed' because guess what...? for a lot of us well-adjusted folks, you have to feel good about and respect the person you're going to have sex with. You have to feel connected and close. What does that say about the millions of women who are willing to have sex with you?
lol
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Old 06-09-2012, 06:13 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I don't understand why there are so many misogynists on this forum.
Why would they care about relationship advice and conversation?
Just put a bag on her head and go to town, right? With any luck, she'll bring you a sammich later.
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Old 06-09-2012, 06:15 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I don't understand why there are so many misogynists on this forum.
Why would they care about relationship advice and conversation?
Just put a bag on her head and go to town, right? With any luck, she'll bring you a sammich later.
They do seem to be overly represented on this forum, that's for sure. Sad too, when life can be so much better than they realize

I'm worried about Kudzu, I wish she'd come back
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