Men what are your turn-offs when it comes to dating? (child, personality)
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I would like a well balanced woman if I was dating, moderation is the key for me. I dont care much for extremes, those are a turn off. I would be willing to tolerate some things that I might not necessarily want or like if they can be worked with.
This has ALWAYS come from a girl/woman who is very uni-dimensional and has a "packaged" way of looking at the world, and looks at men the same way. My nonconformity, despite having a conservative exterior, seems to tick them off. I hear "you're weird" and I'm at the door in a nanosecond.
I have NEVER been told this by a girl/woman who is/was very smart (in a school or work setting) who think I have interesting, clever, irreverent and funny things to say about most things. Ditto for girls/women whose parents were also from another country and spoke another language at home. They NEVER said anything critical to me about how the way my somewhat quirky mind works.
Materialstic I can't stand women who think they have to have the latest thingy,car,phone,etc. The idea that the need to keep up with the Jones makes me want to throw up. If a women can't laugh at herself then thats a downer also, no sense of humor means that are wound up too tight. Anyone who takes life to seriously to the point they can't enjoy it well then I"m gone.
Fairly similiar to other lists here with my own personal tweaks for deal breakers and major annoyances
1. No smoking. Made exception once years ago. Never, ever again.
2. No drug use. Period
3. No children. Future or current
4. Excessive/large body tattoo's and or peircings. Nipple and tounges are just gross
5. Atheists. I"m not the most dedication christian but me and a atheist just won't compute in long run
6. Paris Hilton/Kim Kardashian/Snookie type attitude. Self explanatory
7. Heavy drinker
8. No basic hygiene. Dirty/smelly = gross
9. Continual pessimistic attitude
10. Only child mentality *Ex had this, gawd it was so annoying*
11. No basic shaving. Sorry, but hairy legs and armpits don't do it for me, im not French
12. Noise hair/Unibrow/woman mustache. Just no.
13. Unrealistically cheap and or penny pincher
14. Workaholic. Have a gal pal like this. Its annoying enough just as friends, relationship would drive me to drink drano.
15. Lack of honesty and or communication.
16. Not open to enjoyment of sex and foreplay
17. Extreme liberal or conservative. I don't do well with extremes, politics especially.
18. Vegans. Vegetarian I could live with if she could live with my meat eating. Vegan is just too far.
19. Clingy/needy *Ex was like this. Cute in small doses. Anything more really is annoying*
20. Prudish and or snotty.
21. Overly lazy and or messy. I aint you parent, clean up after yourself and get off your own ass
22. Continual flirter. Such a sign of maturity, not.
23. Doesn't maintain southern hemisphere. Gross as hell, forget sex, let alone oral from me. I trim myself as a matter of habit and politeness, no reason you shouldn't either 24. Unable or unwilling to express feelings and or emotions. God how I hate woman believe men should "Just know" what woman are thinking and feeling. Well we farking DON"T unless you talk to us!!!!!! We HATE HATE HATE the mental guessing games!!!!
amazing the women posts, the recent CDF post consisting of video interviews with young college women, most of whom said they preferred bad boys, contradicts all the posts on this thread by women.
amazing the women posts, the recent CDF post consisting of video interviews with young college women, most of whom said they preferred bad boys, contradicts all the posts on this thread by women.
Well, critical thinking tells you most of the women posting in Relationships forum are above college age.
So, maybe, its nothing more than a phase for that particular age category.
amazing the women posts, the recent CDF post consisting of video interviews with young college women, most of whom said they preferred bad boys, contradicts all the posts on this thread by women.
BTW.........could you point out the contradictory posts you mention on this thread by women?
You're creating something where theres nothing...again. Shouldn't come as a surprise.
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