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Im engaged with this guy I love deeply and I always knew he watched porn, actually this is something we discussed about kinda openly. It was a situation that never really affected me bad since we were separated for a long period (6months), and according to him, this was more like a random activity and whatnot. Well now he is here with me again, and I know this past 4 months we've been in situations that we couldnt have sex and I knew he started watching them again.. but my worries are, even when I know he doesnt watch it often, its the kind of porn I found, most of it is straight couples, but there is this thing that bothers me.... shemales? lesbians???? :/
should I be worried about it?? there are not much, but there are.. and the simple existence of those videos in his "history" bothers me and worries me...
Im engaged with this guy I love deeply and I always knew he watched porn, actually this is something we discussed about kinda openly. It was a situation that never really affected me bad since we were separated for a long period (6months), and according to him, this was more like a random activity and whatnot. Well now he is here with me again, and I know this past 4 months we've been in situations that we couldnt have sex and I knew he started watching them again.. but my worries are, even when I know he doesnt watch it often, its the kind of porn I found, most of it is straight couples, but there is this thing that bothers me.... shemales? lesbians???? :/
should I be worried about it?? there are not much, but there are.. and the simple existence of those videos in his "history" bothers me and worries me...
Not a big deal. My bf's into chicks with d*cks. Doesn't worry or bother me. I'm into DP and interracial. Whatever floats your boat, unless its bestiality or underage<--PROBLEM.
Not a big deal. My bf's into chicks with d*cks. Doesn't worry or bother me. I'm into DP and interracial. Whatever floats your boat, unless its bestiality or underage<--PROBLEM.
What is DP? Nevermind. Don't answer that.
I think your fiance probably just got curious and clicked on the videos. Most people get curious. So, I wouldn't worry about it.
As long as he doesn't suggest you bring in a third party of the aforementioned, then I'd say it's all good.
Not a big deal. My bf's into chicks with d*cks. Doesn't worry or bother me. I'm into DP and interracial. Whatever floats your boat, unless its bestiality or underage<--PROBLEM.
Yeah, I agree. Porn is something guys are into - part of their whole "visual" orientation. I'm not opposed to watching it myself with a partner. Truth is, it often has no bearing on what they really want in bed. Some people want to act out their fantasies, but just as many keep them firmly in the realm of the abstract and have no desire to act them out. The shemale thing is something a lot of guys will take a look at.
Really thank you guys. I dont have problems with him watching porn, and I even implied that one day we could watch it together, but I dont think he considered that idea at all. It happens that the moment he cant be with me, he watches porn, though he always says that he gets horny and all, but never masturbates....
The shemale and lesbian thing could be due to curiosity, but then still, i would be lying if i say it didnt bother me, cause it did, and it made me think about how he feels...maybe i shouldnt even bother at all.. but i can be a bit paranoid...
Yeah, I agree. Porn is something guys are into - part of their whole "visual" orientation. I'm not opposed to watching it myself with a partner. Truth is, it often has no bearing on what they really want in bed. Some people want to act out their fantasies, but just as many keep them firmly in the realm of the abstract and have no desire to act them out. The shemale thing is something a lot of guys will take a look at.
And most likely not admit to doing so...
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Originally Posted by Skydive Outlaw
What is DP?
Two guys at the same time. . . . . . double penetration.
Really thank you guys. I dont have problems with him watching porn, and I even implied that one day we could watch it together, but I dont think he considered that idea at all. It happens that the moment he cant be with me, he watches porn, though he always says that he gets horny and all, but never masturbates....
The shemale and lesbian thing could be due to curiosity, but then still, i would be lying if i say it didnt bother me, cause it did, and it made me think about how he feels...maybe i shouldnt even bother at all.. but i can be a bit paranoid...
Are you insecure? It's a fantasy. I'm a women. My bf's lesbian, asian, shemale fantasies are not at all a threat to me or our relationship and dont make me uncomfortable, because I know he prefers sex with me over these fantasies.
If there is a grey area and you aren't sure, then it's either your insecurity or him not making you feel like his fantasy with you is first and foremost. Either way its a problem that should be addressed.
Really thank you guys. I dont have problems with him watching porn, and I even implied that one day we could watch it together, but I dont think he considered that idea at all. It happens that the moment he cant be with me, he watches porn, though he always says that he gets horny and all, but never masturbates....
The shemale and lesbian thing could be due to curiosity, but then still, i would be lying if i say it didnt bother me, cause it did, and it made me think about how he feels...maybe i shouldnt even bother at all.. but i can be a bit paranoid...
Maybe he wants you to peg him? Oh god, the thought of being pegged makes me throw up in my mouth a little... The one part of my body that's off limits
I never met a man without an extensive porn collection, if I did I would be worried! lol Maybe you and him should make your own porn, ya know give him another 'viewing' option. I would!
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