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So there's this friend that I went on a few dates with almost a year ago but because we didn't want the same things(I didn't want to put out that soon, but he did), I decided that it is much better if we stayed friends instead and he said he agreed. We have the same circle of friends and we're all really close so we see each other fairly often. However, he still tries to get my attention (i.e. hug a little longer than necessary, opportunities to touch me, etc.) Also my friend said that he's still into me. I gained 20 lbs since the last time we went on a date. Why is he still into me? He's really good looking and works out a lot so I don't understand why he would be attracted to me when I'm 20 lbs heavier? I already know I am an insecure person, but still, it's hard for me to justify someone that good looking pursing someone like me at this weight.
So there's this friend that I went on a few dates with almost a year ago but because we didn't want the same things(I didn't want to put out that soon, but he did), I decided that it is much better if we stayed friends instead and he said he agreed. We have the same circle of friends and we're all really close so we see each other fairly often. However, he still tries to get my attention (i.e. hug a little longer than necessary, opportunities to touch me, etc.) Also my friend said that he's still into me. I gained 20 lbs since the last time we went on a date.Why is he still into me? He's really good looking and works out a lot so I don't understand why he would be attracted to me when I'm 20 lbs heavier? I already know I am an insecure person, but still, it's hard for me to justify someone that good looking pursing someone like me at this weight.
Why do you think? Probably hoping you changed your mind about that lay, since that was the problem in the first place. He knows you have 'body issues' too, especially if he's your male friend. they can sniff those types of women out and will try and play them like a violin. Some of the women with 'body issues' don't fall for it though. Some do. 20lbs isn't even that much btw, in my opinion.
Probably because he enjoys your company, likes your personality, and wants to get to know you on a deeper level. Because he's actually interested in getting to know *you* and doesn't fixate on your outer appearance. He might see you as the one who got away and wants to try again to prove himself.
Then again, he could be trying to hit it again.
Why don't you ask himself yourself (without the whole, "You're so handsome, why would you like a girl like me?" That's just awkward)?
I can't believe a woman is asking this. He's still into you because he's the kind of guy we all want and respect--one who's into you for who you are, your personality, values, and inner qualities. Are you into him at all? If so, you two should get back together, give it another try.
Depending on your height, gaining 20 lbs could be a good thing. If you're short, not so good. But he doesn't seem to care. He could be worth giving another chance.
I can't believe a woman is asking this. He's still into you because he's the kind of guy we all want and respect--one who's into you for who you are, your personality, values, and inner qualities. Are you into him at all? If so, you two should get back together, give it another try.
Depending on your height, gaining 20 lbs could be a good thing. If you're short, not so good. But he doesn't seem to care. He could be worth giving another chance.
ruth, after a few dates he expected to get in her pants, sounds like a real winner. better not let him go. :P
Give him the goods, if you wish to get rid of his attention, because that IS what he is after!
hm. This is also a possibility, like you represent a challenge to him. Only you can tell for sure, it depends on if his personality fits the profile. Sometimes it's hard to tell. Sometimes they can fake being sweet to get what they want.
Guys, how can you tell if a guy is just after adding another notch to the belt?
Yeah, I can see that, now. Another little bubble of optimism burst. Oh well. Life.
no no. you're not putting this on me. she said it in her OP, I was just repeating what she said!!! LOL.
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