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View Poll Results: How often do you get hit on in public?
Male - at least once a day 8 4.60%
Male - about once a week 12 6.90%
Male - about once a month 14 8.05%
Male - a few times a year 19 10.92%
Male - a few times in my life 18 10.34%
Male - never 27 15.52%
Female - at least once a day 17 9.77%
Female - about once a week 17 9.77%
Female - about once a month 10 5.75%
Female - a few times a year 10 5.75%
Female - a few times in my life 15 8.62%
Female - never 7 4.02%
Voters: 174. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 08-13-2012, 05:36 PM
 
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I never have been "hit on" in public. At least not that I was aware of. Man, what is WRONG with me? lol
if thats you in the pic, i wouldnt worry about it.
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Old 08-13-2012, 05:38 PM
 
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A lot of girls are unaware of when a guy is hitting on them, they think the guy is just being "nice." I knew this one hot girl and she was talking about how she met this one athlete guy and he was "soo nice" and invited her to this one thing, and another guy who gave her free tickets to this other thing and blah blah blah. She had a boyfriend, she just thought everyone was being "nice" to her, cause that is the world she, as a hot girl, lives in.
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Old 08-13-2012, 05:39 PM
 
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if thats you in the pic, i wouldnt worry about it.
Well, of course it's me! lol Who else would it be? I think I must have the "get the heck away from me" look or something, lol.
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Old 08-13-2012, 05:40 PM
 
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Well, of course it's me! lol Who else would it be? I think I must have the "get the heck away from me" look or something, lol.
There you go, you just got hit on on the internet. Bet it happens in public all the time and you are unaware.
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Old 08-13-2012, 05:49 PM
 
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Well, of course it's me! lol Who else would it be? I think I must have the "get the heck away from me" look or something, lol.
That was a compliment, sweetie. Youre super young and attractive. Youll figure it out sooner than you think.
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Old 08-13-2012, 05:54 PM
 
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Think about this, most men wouldnt mind a virgin but the opposite is almost never true in the vice versa scenario.
Yea, that's the truth; and it's really another hurdle that men have to jump over in order to please women.

Never understood it, most women expect guys to be sexually experienced, but at the same time no woman wants to be with a sexually inexperienced male.
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Old 08-13-2012, 05:54 PM
 
Location: NYC
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I never have been "hit on" in public.
o'rly?


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Man, what is WRONG with me? lol
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if thats you in the pic, i wouldnt worry about it.
lol! def

you'll be allright
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Old 08-13-2012, 05:56 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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that was uber lame of him

i totally believe it though

i can see buying one particular girl in a group a drink, although even that's not a great idea i think

but certainly if you are going to buy a round you have to include everyone in the group. that even applies whether its for a group of gals, guys, or mixed
I didn't really realize it was a social faux pas until this thread. I've been in a lot of situations where a guy will only buy a drink for 1 or 2 of the women and leave a few out. It actually happens quite often where me and one other girlfriend I have will be left out of the drink buying. Drinks are expensive so I guess I never really worried about it.
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Old 08-13-2012, 05:58 PM
 
Location: NYC
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I didn't really realize it was a social faux pas until this thread. I've been in a lot of situations where a guy will only buy a drink for 1 or 2 of the women and leave a few out. It actually happens quite often where me and one other girlfriend I have will be left out of the drink buying. Drinks are expensive so I guess I never really worried about it.
well buying one drink for a lady in a group is a little different. i still think it's a bad idea, but it's not the same as leaving one or just a few out

that's far worse. they might as well throw their money down the toilet in that case. funny, since they're probably driven by some sort of ill conceived penny pinching to act in this way
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Old 08-13-2012, 06:06 PM
 
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A lot of girls are unaware of when a guy is hitting on them, they think the guy is just being "nice."
That's true, and that's because most guys are not direct enough when asking women what they want. They hope that just being nice that the woman will in turn make a move on them. I'm guilt as charged as I use to do this myself.

The truth is women are turned on with a guy being aggressive and direct with them. You just have to make sure the girl already likes you for it to work.

lol, reminds me of a story of a guy I knew who picked up a random girl at a club. He took her back to the hotel and simply asked to the girl, "So, are you ready to F***?" He told me she was turned on by his frankness.
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