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View Poll Results: How often do you get hit on in public?
Male - at least once a day 8 4.60%
Male - about once a week 12 6.90%
Male - about once a month 14 8.05%
Male - a few times a year 19 10.92%
Male - a few times in my life 18 10.34%
Male - never 27 15.52%
Female - at least once a day 17 9.77%
Female - about once a week 17 9.77%
Female - about once a month 10 5.75%
Female - a few times a year 10 5.75%
Female - a few times in my life 15 8.62%
Female - never 7 4.02%
Voters: 174. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 07-19-2012, 09:47 AM
 
Location: The Present
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I'm a handsome dude, so I often get hit on a lot by both women and men.

A lot of times from females it's very indirect (as expected), but on the opposite i've had guys come up to me and try to kick it and I have to tell them that I don't swing like that.

The only time this changes is when I have my girl with me, a lot of chicks will make hateful comments or try to get bold.
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Old 07-19-2012, 09:49 AM
 
Location: Texas
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I can't really answer the poll, because I don't go out every day.

When I was younger, it was ALL THE FREAKIN' TIME when I was out...even at the grocery store or whatever.

Nowadays, I often feel like it's just about to happen. But then I also live in a very friendly place. People (men and women) talk to each other all the time and smile and make eye contact all the time...so it's hard to tell.
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Old 07-19-2012, 09:54 AM
 
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How would you describe guys who flocked to married women to try them despite the fact they were married? Yet these women should be understood?
Well, its highly hyupothetical, because men in general prefer unmarried women. it only works one way, remmeber men and women are vastly different. Think about this, most men wouldnt mind a virgin but the opposite is almost never true in the vice versa scenario. When you ask about sexual partners, most men round up their number, while most owmen round it down. Man who has many sexual partners is considered a player yet a woman with many sexual partners is considered a ****. Its attractive for a woman to be less sexualy experienced while its attractive for men to be more experienced.
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Old 07-19-2012, 09:56 AM
 
Location: Middle America
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Less often, now that I'm a. not the single girl running around doing all my errands alone. Most of the time, I have my SO in tow, which discourages such behavior most of the time, and b. Now that I'm in my midthirties. It happened a lot when I was in my twenties and single and running around on my own all the time. Now it's infrequently enough that I notice it more when it happens.
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Old 07-19-2012, 09:57 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Less often, now that I'm a. not the single girl running around doing all my errands alone. Most of the time, I have my SO in tow, which discourages such behavior most of the time, and b. Now that I'm in my midthirties. It happened a lot when I was in my twenties and single and running around on my own all the time. Now it's infrequently enough that I notice it more when it happens.
I think the 20s vs 30s thing (which I also noticed) also has to do with how naive and vulnerable you look as a little girl running about town doing things vs a put-together, well-to-do, confidence thing.
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Old 07-19-2012, 09:58 AM
 
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No, she was 35, very intelligent and mature, which were both major turn ons. However, she was divorced and got screwed over really bad, since her hubby was cheating on her with her best friend. I dealt with it fine, but found it amusing that she needed to continue going back to this. I know many women question guyus in my position, which i dont really care for much.
You're a better person than I am, I guess. Having someone question me continually like that wouldn't sit very well.


Trimac- it's nothing new that both men and women get hit on if they appear taken. For different reasons of course.
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Old 07-19-2012, 09:58 AM
 
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Is being told, "Oh baby, wow!" a hit-on? Or a sleazoid-on?
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Old 07-19-2012, 09:58 AM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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Well, its highly hyupothetical, because men in general prefer unmarried women. it only works one way, remmeber men and women are vastly different. Think about this, most men wouldnt mind a virgin but the opposite is almost never true in the vice versa scenario. When you ask about sexual partners, most men round up their number, while most owmen round it down. Man who has many sexual partners is considered a player yet a woman with many sexual partners is considered a ****. Its attractive for a woman to be less sexualy experienced while its attractive for men to be more experienced.
Well, I'm talking about women actively flirting with married men. You don't think that's admirable, do you? I suppose if it really is just 'harmless.'

So you're saying no women wants a virgin? I hear women often say they wouldn't mind a virgin, you're saying they're all lying, are you?
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Old 07-19-2012, 09:59 AM
 
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You're a better person than I am, I guess. Having someone question me continually like that wouldn't sit very well.


Trimac- it's nothing new that both men and women get hit on if they appear taken. For different reasons of course.
Yeah, i didnt care much for it, but we only dated for a couple of weeks and i guess little things like that ensured that it went nowhere. It was a thing of curiousity for me, and i got a good chuckle out of it for the most part.
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Old 07-19-2012, 10:02 AM
 
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Well, I'm talking about women actively flirting with married men. You don't think that's admirable, do you? I suppose if it really is just 'harmless.'

So you're saying no women wants a virgin? I hear women often say they wouldn't mind a virgin, you're saying they're all lying, are you?
I dont know how to make this as PC as I can, but if you havent noticed, what most women say and what they actualy do are very often two very different things. Women DO NOT want a virgin - trust me. THey want an experienced guy who can rock their world. Pay attention to their actions not their words, and you'll be better off for it.

As for women actively flirting with married men, its just the way it is. Ive learned to appreciate and love women for the way they are.
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