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If you count bars and clubs, at least once a week...which tells you I spend a lot of times at bars and clubs.
I consider women pretending to not notice me but putting themselves in my vicinity as a form of hitting on me. If you're always in my space, what do want, lady? Hmm?
Outside of that, maybe a once or twice a year.
Yeah, im pretty sure a woman stnading close to you, doesnt apply to this scenario...lmao
There aren't many respondents yet, but it's interesting to note that for all the guys who say that all women get hit on all the time that just as many women have responded that they get hit on "rarely or never" as "daily or weekly."
He said in public though, not bars.
If you change it to bars or parties, the amount of women who have rarely or never been hit on will hit a really low number.
I actually just saw that, so I change my answer to never.
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It's no different with men. My married girlfriends say they get hit on FAR more when they're wearing their wedding bands. My sister actually wears one fairly regularly because she gets more attention that way. A guy friend of mine basically only goes after women with wedding bands because they're 'easier' and they often feel guilty about the hookup and won't bother him afterwards.
Ha...well there you go then...so much for the 'sanctity' of marriage. But oh no, the enemy is not from within, it's those **** who will destroy marriage.
I think that having a friend of the opposite sex present is a major benefit in determining if a guy/gal is just being friendly or flirty. Obviously a guy being lewd is a guy being lewd, but I come onto girls much more subtley unless I'm hammered. In that case, it's a quick gaze into their eyes and smile followed by an immediate kiss.
I've been out with my sister as well as female friends and have been completely oblivious to another girl flirting until they mentioned it to me
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If you count bars and clubs, at least once a week...which tells you I spend a lot of times at bars and clubs.
I consider women pretending to not notice me but putting themselves in my vicinity as a form of hitting on me. If you're always in my space, what do want, lady? Hmm? Then, when I say something, coldness. Then when I ignore them, "Oh hey, I know you!"...stupid games they play. It's like reverse negging.
Outside of that, maybe a once or twice a year.
I would not consider that getting 'hit on.' Maybe my inexperienced mind conjures up images of foxy, middle aged women actively grabbing a man by the tie and whispering 'wanna have some fun, lover boy?' but I suppose this scenario doesn't happen so much in real life? Maybe I expect women to be more pro-active than they are, which is why I never get any attention. The movies make it seem like women hit on men as much as men hit on women, but I know that's not real life.
Men and women are VERY different and both attracted to very different traits. But we can agree to disagree on that. Both men and women enjoy sex obviously, so there are going to be some similarities there. If youre very attractive, of course men will not worry about you being married and will do their thing.
Well, I'm not going to argue with you here, but there are several core similarities.
I was never married, I just wore the ring to keep guys away. Who knew it was backfiring on me? lol
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There aren't many respondents yet, but it's interesting to note that for all the guys who say that all women get hit on all the time that just as many women have responded that they get hit on "rarely or never" as "daily or weekly."
A lot of people have some pretty wild imaginations as well. I had a friend in college who thought every guy that looked at her wanted in her pants. She also thought one of my closest guy friends was in love with her, but he didn't care for her much at all. It's all perception and ego.
Make an innuendo, get slapped.
Make a suggestion, get slapped.
Make a move, get slapped.
I'd say 3 times according to the above.
Awww. Were you the slappee or the slapper? Inquiring minds wanna know?
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