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View Poll Results: How often do you get hit on in public?
Male - at least once a day 8 4.60%
Male - about once a week 12 6.90%
Male - about once a month 14 8.05%
Male - a few times a year 19 10.92%
Male - a few times in my life 18 10.34%
Male - never 27 15.52%
Female - at least once a day 17 9.77%
Female - about once a week 17 9.77%
Female - about once a month 10 5.75%
Female - a few times a year 10 5.75%
Female - a few times in my life 15 8.62%
Female - never 7 4.02%
Voters: 174. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 07-19-2012, 10:05 AM
 
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Well, its highly hyupothetical, because men in general prefer unmarried women. it only works one way, remmeber men and women are vastly different. .
When I wore a ring on my finger that didn't deter men from doing their thing. I even had one eloquent gentleman ask, "he ain't here now, is he?" That was after I told him I was taken.

Men and women are not that different, really.
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Old 07-19-2012, 10:09 AM
 
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Well, I'm talking about women actively flirting with married men. You don't think that's admirable, do you? I suppose if it really is just 'harmless.'

So you're saying no women wants a virgin? I hear women often say they wouldn't mind a virgin, you're saying they're all lying, are you?
I said I didn't mind a virgin once....turned out I was wrong. It's just not the same.
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Old 07-19-2012, 10:12 AM
 
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I have noticed that men in general just don't approach women anymore.
That's true in this area-the men are very passive.

As for the married issue, every now and then I browse the personals on CL to remind myself there are worse things than being single. It's full of ads from married men who are bored and looking for something on the side.
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Old 07-19-2012, 10:14 AM
 
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Once in a while in public, often at bars or clubs
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Old 07-19-2012, 10:17 AM
 
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Never by women, but a handful of times by guys over the course of my life.
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Old 07-19-2012, 10:28 AM
 
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When I wore a ring on my finger that didn't deter men from doing their thing. I even had one eloquent gentleman ask, "he ain't here now, is he?" That was after I told him I was taken.

Men and women are not that different, really.
Men and women are VERY different and both attracted to very different traits. But we can agree to disagree on that. Both men and women enjoy sex obviously, so there are going to be some similarities there. If youre very attractive, of course men will not worry about you being married and will do their thing.
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Old 07-19-2012, 10:28 AM
 
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When I wore a ring on my finger that didn't deter men from doing their thing. I even had one eloquent gentleman ask, "he ain't here now, is he?" That was after I told him I was taken.

I get that all. the. time. The worst is when I am traveling alone. There are parts of the world where men still think a woman traveling without her male partner is basically a prostitute. Disgusting.
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Old 07-19-2012, 10:29 AM
 
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There aren't many respondents yet, but it's interesting to note that for all the guys who say that all women get hit on all the time that just as many women have responded that they get hit on "rarely or never" as "daily or weekly."
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Old 07-19-2012, 10:30 AM
 
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If you count bars and clubs, at least once a week...which tells you I spend a lot of times at bars and clubs.

I consider women pretending to not notice me but putting themselves in my vicinity as a form of hitting on me. If you're always in my space, what do want, lady? Hmm? Then, when I say something, coldness. Then when I ignore them, "Oh hey, I know you!"...stupid games they play. It's like reverse negging.

Outside of that, maybe a once or twice a year.
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Old 07-19-2012, 10:30 AM
 
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Men who hit on married women are low lifes and karma comes around........
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