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Just looking at this from a different angle. And what if you went ahead and did it on the third date and he was awful. Next guy, third date, he’s awful too, next guy second date no chemistry and on and on. So in 90 days you have slept with say 6 guys and still haven’t found the right one. Now you’re a ho and no guy wants a girl that’s slept with that many people, or so I’ve heard via CD.
"H**" get married and have kids all the time. And that's an extreme scenario you listed
"H**" get married and have kids all the time. And that's an extreme scenario you listed
Yep. Happens all the time. I really don't care about how many men a woman has been with as long as there is attraction, great conversation and she doesn't bring me down emotionally or financially. I remember this great gal between High school and college who was having one nighters or twos, where the guys were not staying with her from her percieved reputation. I don't remember, but maybe she had been with 4 guys over 2 semesters. She was cute, bright and nice, and I would have had no problems having her as a gilrfriend for those reasons.
The 90 day probation period......what do you think?
Just wondering.....
Basically it goes like this...Do you believe woman will have better luck in finding and keeping her "Mr. Right" if she holds the sex? Men what do you think? Would you wait for that woman or would you move to the next one willing to give it up the first night?
Again just wondering....
We have a name here for women with 90 day probation here in CA.
Just looking at this from a different angle. And what if you went ahead and did it on the third date and he was awful. Next guy, third date, he’s awful too, next guy second date no chemistry and on and on. So in 90 days you have slept with say 6 guys and still haven’t found the right one. Now you’re a ho and no guy wants a girl that’s slept with that many people, or so I’ve heard via CD.
I keep my personal life to myself and I don't think I've ever had a guy ask me what my number is, so really how would a guy know that there had been 6 guys in 90 days? Unless it was a small town or a college where these guys were going around talking about it which is really trashy anyway.
I keep my personal life to myself and I don't think I've ever had a guy ask me what my number is, so really how would a guy know that there had been 6 guys in 90 days? Unless it was a small town or a college where these guys were going around talking about it which is really trashy anyway.
I live in a small town and women's reputation is still important here...and I'm nearly 30!
I did have a guy ask my number on a first date (it was an online thing), but then again he also asked if I got my nails done regularly because 'he wasn't into high maintenance chicks' and spent a good 20 minutes telling me how bad drinking beer was after I ordered a pint with dinner. He turned out to be a real charmer.
I had a guy tell me after a month if sex isn't on the table he's gone cause seeing someone without sex is like a marriage. I think you should get to know a person before sex, but in todays times it seems u got have sex if you want to get to know the person...
"H**" get married and have kids all the time. And that's an extreme scenario you listed
Perfect example. You just labeled the women who doesn’t wait and goes ahead and sleeps with a guy after a date or two a H***. In capital letters even.
I dont know how many times I've read statements from some of you same guys on CD about how you wouldnt get serious with a girl if she had X number of guys she has slept with, if she was too quick to jump in bed then you know she has jumped in bed with every other guy, blah blah blah.
Seem like a catch 22. Don’t want a women who has had too many partners but will move on if she waits awhile to get to know you before she has sex with you.
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I keep my personal life to myself and I don't think I've ever had a guy ask me what my number is, so really how would a guy know that there had been 6 guys in 90 days? Unless it was a small town or a college where these guys were going around talking about it which is really trashy anyway.
You think there isnt a lot of trashy guys. Especially the ones who hit it then split after a couple dates or one date. They tell a buddy and their buddy tells a buddy. Granted, I live in a small college town, but I have heard sooooo much about what women will do sexually from guys.
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