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You would have to meet someone like me, get to know me and your perception would surely change. Consider yourself enlightened. lol... i dont know why i said you were a shackled woman, i thought perhaps i was responding to someone else. my bet...
You were responding to Dewdrop as the shackled woman; I haven't tried to figure out multi quotes yet. I was responding as someone who is not shackled and therefore by your line of thinking should be lusting over "players" yet am not.
I'll report back should I have a real life enlightening experience but I don't recommend holding your breath. Unless, of course, blue is your color.
You were responding to Dewdrop as the shackled woman; I haven't tried to figure out multi quotes yet. I was responding as someone who is not shackled and therefore by your line of thinking should be lusting over "players" yet am not.
I'll report back should I have a real life enlightening experience but I don't recommend holding your breath. Unless, of course, blue is your color.
For the record - I'm not "shackled" either! I'm in a happy marriage. I just decided to let it slide.
You would have to meet someone like me, get to know me and your perception would surely change. Consider yourself enlightened. lol... i dont know why i said you were a shackled woman, i thought perhaps i was responding to someone else. my bet...
They're everywhere. They're so ordinary, you don't notice them. As someone else posted, it's not always about being relatively inexperienced, depending on how you define "experience" in this context. If a guy has had two or three LTR's, that adds up to a lot of experience over years.
It really speaks to the kind of crowd some of you guys hang out with, if you're so convinced that "women" (broad, sweeping statement inclusive of all women) go for promiscuous men. You have a really skewed view of reality. Which you're certainly free to enjoy. A problem arises, though, when you try to convince others that your view represents the norm.
I have heard of the saying that the more you get, the more you get; and the less you get, the less you get. It seems to be a self-fulfilling prophecy when I don't have enough money.
Have you ever dated a guy who turned out to be a douche/ as shole/jerk?
Nope!
I had my own "player" type days in college - and a couple of the guys I hooked up with (not slept with, just hooked up) might have been d-bags or jerks - but I was using them as much as they were using me. However - those days were short lived. I don't regret them - but I can't see doing that for more than a couple years. The guys I chose to hook up with for an evening were not the same guys that I would choose to have an actual relationship with. Perhaps they thought of me in the same light - who knows! Doesn't much matter to me now.
All the guys that I actually dated or had relationships with were really great guys. I guess I just have good taste!
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