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I was only addressing the point where the guys don't get called out for it. Actually, some do and it still happens.
I don't know about your experiences, I mostly only heard or experienced things about people who are dating already. It does seem true that men have an advantage though because a lot of them still cheat and the women they cheat with don't mind. But like you said, the reverse would be unacceptable.
Yeah, its a double standard for sure, but its real, so there is no reason to hide it. When a woman knows for a fact that a guy has zero success with other women, isnt dating any or sleeping with any, she says to herself "there sure must be something wrong with him, because no other women want him. He must be a creep or have some sort of major issue". The opposite is true when a man is popular with the opposite sex. When a woman sees a man surrounded by girls, who can get any one of them, she wants him as a challenge as well as the fact that there must be something about him, since all women want him. Its an honest observation that is echoed every weekend im at a club or a bar, or anywhere out in the real world for that matter.
Yet where are the girls that intentionally go after guys who are inexperienced? Actions speak louder than words.
They're everywhere. They're so ordinary, you don't notice them. As someone else posted, it's not always about being relatively inexperienced, depending on how you define "experience" in this context. If a guy has had two or three LTR's, that adds up to a lot of experience over years.
It really speaks to the kind of crowd some of you guys hang out with, if you're so convinced that "women" (broad, sweeping statement inclusive of all women) go for promiscuous men. You have a really skewed view of reality. Which you're certainly free to enjoy. A problem arises, though, when you try to convince others that your view represents the norm.
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So what happens when the guy tells her his count is 1? That's right, its not attractive at all.
You're making this up out of thin air, of course. NOW HEAR THIS: women don't care! They're with the guy for his personal qualities, unless they're female players themselves, which most women aren't. Lots of women in their 20's are with guys who only had one girlfriend prior to them. Or no girlfriends. They don't care! They're having to much fun enjoying their bf. If women were turned off by virgins, or guys who had had just one sexual experience, or one girlfriend, NO GUYS WOULD EVER PROGRESS PAST THAT STAGE! This includes you! Do you see the nonsensical side of your erroneous belief?
All guys are virgins to each new woman they're with, because women's sexual functioning is so highly individual, that everyone needs training in the intricacies of each unique female body. And if you think you have nothing to learn, that you know it all, you're not going to be that popular.
I get checked for STDs regularly and always use protection. All negative results, as always.
Good for you. That's very decent of you. That must be quite a medical bill you've run up over time. I guess it's just part of the cost of "doing business", isn't it?
Good for you. That's very decent of you. That must be quite a medical bill you've run up over time. I guess it's just part of the cost of "doing business", isn't it?
I dont sleep around as much as you ASSume I do. See what i did there ? =)
Im dating 3 girls right now, and theyre a handful but fairly easy to manage.
I get checked for STDs regularly and always use protection. All negative results, as always.
Just curious, how are you checked for HPV?
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