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I've never felt the need to lie about the number of partners I have had. Would I like experience in a man? Yes. But an entire zip code's worth? Not so much. The more partners a guy has had, the more turned off I get. I don't find someone in the triple digits appealing, nor do I find that to be an indicator of "success" in dating. I guess that boils down to what your end game is. If it's to sleep with as many people as possible and die alone, then yeah, I guess that would be considered a success. But that lifestyle sounds pretty lonely to me.
And this goes back to a conversation that went on a while back about experience. A guy who's been in 5 or 6 (or whatever) long-term relationships may not have a huge partner count, but he's been having just as much, if not more, sex than his promiscuous counterparts. I'd prefer that kind of experience over that of the town bicycle, myself.
playas, sleep with 4 or 5 women in a week, honey. If women didnt find them and their lifestyle attractive, they wouldnt open up their legs after a 20 minute conversation. Reality trumps BS.
Isn't that the scenario with sugar babies and prostitutes as well? Hey, as long as you get paid.
I dont know what sugar babies and prostitutes have to do with my post. Really nothing.
Because YOU mentioned that these guys sleep around a lot. Everything I've said still goes against the original point you were trying to make stating that guys can sleep around a lot and not get called out for it. Good luck.
Because YOU mentioned that these guys sleep around a lot. Everything I've said still goes against the original point you were trying to make stating that guys can sleep around a lot and not get called out for it. Good luck.
Youre missing my point. Its not only that guys dont get called out for it, its that its actualy attractive to the opposite sex. Lets be real here for a minute and acknowledge an existing double standard. term player when spoken about a guy, is usualy seen in a positive light, a term **** when spoken about a woman, is about the worst thing you can say about one. Sorry, but from my own real life experience, most attractive women will sleep with you alot faster when you have several sexual partners and are dating several women than when you are single, not dating or sleeping with any. If anyone has real life experiences that show that is false, i am all ears. No need fo rhypotheticals concerning what women think is true.
Youre missing my point. Its not only that guys dont get called out for it, its that its actualy attractive to the opposite sex. Lets be real here for a minute and acknowledge an existing double standard. term player when spoken about a guy, is usualy seen in a positive light, a term **** when spoken about a woman, is about the worst thing you can say about one. Sorry, but from my own real life experience, most attractive women will sleep with you alot faster when you have several sexual partners and are dating several women than when you are single, not dating or sleeping with any. If anyone has real life experiences that show that is false, i am all ears. No need fo rhypotheticals concerning what women think is true.
I was only addressing the point where the guys don't get called out for it. Actually, some do and it still happens.
I don't know about your experiences, I mostly only heard or experienced things about people who are dating already. It does seem true that men have an advantage though because a lot of them still cheat and the women they cheat with don't mind. But like you said, the reverse would be unacceptable.
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