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Old 09-11-2012, 09:22 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Cantabridgienne View Post
You sound like you read too many self-help books for men.
you sound like a woman aka. worst dating advice source possible

 
Old 09-11-2012, 09:25 AM
 
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But you, as a man, are an expert on all men and all women? That's convenient.

You know, just because you proclaim something, doesn't make it a universal truth.
 
Old 09-11-2012, 09:30 AM
 
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I'm one of those that "had to settle because he cant keep up with the game".... hmmm..... Well that's an interesting way to look at it I suppose, wrong but interesting none the less..

Good luck with your next thought.
i just mean that in a context of our conversation, not as a cherry picked statement. our cd female population tends to think that marriage is the pinnacle of dating world and that its what every man seeks. Truth is, many guys settle for marriage, because they want a sure thing at home, which they often cant even get, ironicaly. I recognize that many men want a family and are ready to setlle down, so thats why they choose this path. good luck sleeping with one woman for the rest of your life, with 4 billion out there, needing attention
 
Old 09-11-2012, 09:38 AM
 
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But you, as a man, are an expert on all men and all women? That's convenient.

You know, just because you proclaim something, doesn't make it a universal truth.
but the fact that its the actual truth does. There is only one, but not everyone seeks it.
 
Old 09-11-2012, 09:42 AM
 
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You must date a lot of men to have so many insights into them, then?
 
Old 09-11-2012, 09:52 AM
 
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You must date a lot of men to have so many insights into them, then?
no, but I am a man, very succesful with the opposite sex. Since men dont have to worry about being labeled sluts (the worst thing to any woman), we can actualy be realistic about dating and able to speak the truth. Guys who need advice on dating, need to look to other guys who are succesful at it, not women who have no idea what its all about. Some of the advice on ehre form female posters makes me cringe hard, because it leads to more failure and more confusion.
 
Old 09-11-2012, 09:55 AM
 
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Yeah, I know all about cringing when reading posts in this forum.
 
Old 09-11-2012, 10:08 AM
 
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Yeah, I know all about cringing when reading posts in this forum.
I would hate it if the truth and reality made me cringe. how do you deal with that? lol
 
Old 09-11-2012, 10:46 AM
 
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im perfectly ok if we agree to disagree. Im basing my opinion on alot of real life experiences and 37 years of being a man and observing the opposite sex. Women prefer guys who are experienced in bed. Notice, when asked about a number of previous sexual partners, men round up the number while women round it down. Ever bother to wonder why? hahahahaha its called reality
I've never felt the need to lie about the number of partners I have had. Would I like experience in a man? Yes. But an entire zip code's worth? Not so much. The more partners a guy has had, the more turned off I get. I don't find someone in the triple digits appealing, nor do I find that to be an indicator of "success" in dating. I guess that boils down to what your end game is. If it's to sleep with as many people as possible and die alone, then yeah, I guess that would be considered a success. But that lifestyle sounds pretty lonely to me.
 
Old 09-11-2012, 10:49 AM
 
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I've never felt the need to lie about the number of partners I have had. Would I like experience in a man? Yes. But an entire zip code's worth? Not so much. The more partners a guy has had, the more turned off I get. I don't find someone in the triple digits appealing, nor do I find that to be an indicator of "success" in dating. I guess that boils down to what your end game is. If it's to sleep with as many people as possible and die alone, then yeah, I guess that would be considered a success. But that lifestyle sounds pretty lonely to me.
we all die alone, one way or another. and i agree, its all about what you want.
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