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Old 08-06-2012, 06:12 PM
 
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I can't help with the annoying bit...
But, I don't know, I definitely don't think that...I'm not above women and they have nothing to prove to me. I'm not special, just Joe Average.
Perhaps maybe the attitude you're picking up on is where I'm like 'women who'll never be special to me, by my own choosing or their own, will remain just that; not special'.

Bad attitude, or 'unhealthy' as it were?
Who are you responding to ?

Your posts are hard to follow because they're stream of consciousness like Faulkner & Joyce.

Responses like the above with lots of orphaned pronouns like "that" or "you" when we don't know who or what you are talking about are very hard to understand.

And add to the impression that your theories are extremely bizarre.

Who cares if a woman is 'not special' to you ?

The answer is only you. The rest of us don't care. Sorry.

So, your theory isn't going to work.

Not only does a woman have to prove to you that she's special to you, but you have to prove to her that you're special to her.

It's a two way street. That's what you seem to be having a problem understanding.
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Old 08-06-2012, 06:15 PM
 
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Correct! In YOUR mind you're expressing yourself...in everyone's mind they don't understand what you're talking about.

Could it be you're TRYING too hard to sound more intelligent than you actually are?
I've been told multiple times that I'm stupid...truth is...it's probably true.
But, I don't know, that's just how I think...and it's not like my grammar is great...I fragment my sentences a lot.
Just doing me I guess. I'll try to be more accessible...
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Old 08-06-2012, 06:21 PM
 
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I've been told multiple times that I'm stupid...truth is...it's probably true.
But, I don't know, that's just how I think...and it's not like my grammar is great...I fragment my sentences a lot.
Just doing me I guess. I'll try to be more accessible...
Fragments are fine. Just try to avoid using words like "you" "that" and "it" when other people aren't going to understand what exactly "you" "that" or "it" are. Don't worry, lots of people do that. Me included. It doesn't mean you or I are stupid. Just means we like to write in stream of consciousness ...
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Old 08-06-2012, 06:50 PM
 
Location: Mammoth Lakes, CA
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I like being single, though. It's bliss, mostly.
Then why are you posting on a relationships board? Just stick to your right hand since being single is bliss. Best of luck!
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Old 08-06-2012, 06:53 PM
 
Location: NoVa
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So dub dub, I know I am going to sound like a broken record, but I am confused. Your initial post made it sound like you were working to feed your family and she needed to do her part. Then you have only gotten just her number, or its been a year and a half.

So, you are not in a relationship, is this correct? You have approached her and now want her to make the next move? Is that what you're saying?
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Old 08-06-2012, 08:20 PM
 
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So dub dub, I know I am going to sound like a broken record, but I am confused. Your initial post made it sound like you were working to feed your family and she needed to do her part. Then you have only gotten just her number, or its been a year and a half.

So, you are not in a relationship, is this correct? You have approached her and now want her to make the next move? Is that what you're saying?
Yes. She'll need to make the next move if anything is to happen. I'll hang out with her for a bit, but I'm expecting the next move to be her's. After suffecient time, if nothing'll happen, I'll be on my way.
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Old 08-06-2012, 08:58 PM
 
Location: The Present
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She wasn't going slow or smart, there were other guys pounding her in that time of 1.5 years.

Learn to play the field young jedi.
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Old 08-06-2012, 09:26 PM
 
Location: Way up high
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I'm confused
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Old 08-07-2012, 05:36 AM
 
Location: Earth
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I confuse too... Conversation thread sense not making.
OP conjured theoretical synopsys express dismay with perceived valuation of fairer sex.
These are not the droids you're looking for!
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Old 08-07-2012, 07:24 AM
 
Location: NoVa
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Yes. She'll need to make the next move if anything is to happen. I'll hang out with her for a bit, but I'm expecting the next move to be her's. After suffecient time, if nothing'll happen, I'll be on my way.
OP, a woman is not going to wait for a year and a half for a man she doesn't even know if he likes her or not.
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