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I don't know why some of the guys here find this so hard to believe. There are superficial women out there, and superficial men. But when it comes to partnering for life, character and personality are what see the relationship through thick and thin. At least, that's how many women think.
Yes but you still have to be attractive to him to move forward.
Yes but both will be unhappy emotionally. Materialistic things does not bring full happiness.
Physically amazing will get you temporary girls but not long-term if you arent' stable financially.
Depends on what you think is financially stable... for some reason the men on this forum think this means 'wealthy'. It does not.
It means not eating cereal out of the box every night for dinner (unless you choose too) and being able to live fairly comfortably. I don't care if a guy lives with his parents (I think it's financially sound, especially if you're working your way through college or trying to save up for a down payment on a house) and I don't care if he works a lower end job. But if he's constantly broke because he spends all his money on weed and beer he's not financially stable.
Depends on what you think is financially stable... for some reason the men on this forum think this means 'wealthy'. It does not.
It means not eating cereal out of the box every night for dinner (unless you choose too) and being able to live fairly comfortably. I don't care if a guy lives with his parents (I think it's financially sound, especially if you're working your way through college or trying to save up for a down payment on a house) and I don't care if he works a lower end job. But if he's constantly broke because he spends all his money on weed and beer he's not financially stable.
LOL @ weed and beer.
I recently saw an article on MSN and it said that 40% of working Americans live paycheck to paycheck.
That number is scary to me.... 4 out 10 people have absolutey no saving?????
I budget myself so that I live paycheck to paycheck, but if I missed a few paychecks I wouldn't be homeless.
People need to stop spending so much money on bullshyt things like Ipods or cappy-frappy-mocha-latte-espresso whoopty duppty drinks at places like Starbucks.
People need to stop spending so much money on bullshyt things like Ipods or cappy-frappy-mocha-latte-espresso whoopty duppty drinks at places like Starbucks.
This is true. But also bear in mind that a lot of people have seen their paychecks cut, have to put up with furloughs, or lost their jobs and have had to take much lower-paying work. What's happening in this country is scary. On the other hand, credit cards make it too easy to avoid fiscal discipline.
I recently saw an article on MSN and it said that 40% of working Americans live paycheck to paycheck.
That number is scary to me.... 4 out 10 people have absolutey no saving?????
I budget myself so that I live paycheck to paycheck, but if I missed a few paychecks I wouldn't be homeless.
People need to stop spending so much money on bullshyt things like Ipods or cappy-frappy-mocha-latte-espresso whoopty duppty drinks at places like Starbucks.
It's so true though! I know so many guys who are completely broke and call me for rides or need me to 'spot them a bit of cash' but always seem to have money for weed, beer and cigarettes. Ugh.
I do agree that people need to budget a bit better and live a little lower on the hog.
It's so true though! I know so many guys who are completely broke and call me for rides or need me to 'spot them a bit of cash' but always seem to have money for weed, beer and cigarettes. Ugh.
You really do need a classier environment, Jet. You deserve so much better.
You said it: IN COLLEGE. And even less important in high school if you want to go back further. But when it comes to more than simply hanging out with a guy, his financial status IS important for women. Generally speaking, women place as much importance in a man’s financial status as much as a man does to being physically attracted to a woman. .
So true. Repped you for that.
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You deserve so much better. 
