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Old 09-15-2012, 02:37 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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My grandma tended to be more honest than many modern women in modern times.
You'd better look for someone like your granny.
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Old 09-15-2012, 02:38 PM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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Can you not get women to f*** you without lying to them about what you do?
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Old 09-15-2012, 03:28 PM
 
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would I not just be a toy for these women though?

ie: they sleep with me if they think I'm a CEO or record producer, but not if I'm a burger flipper.

who's being the jerk now?
You got it Kenneth. If a women sleeps with a guy because she thinks she can benefit from this situations she clearly treats him as an object or a tool. That means you can do the same.
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Old 09-15-2012, 03:41 PM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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You got it Kenneth. If a women sleeps with a guy because she thinks she can benefit from this situations she clearly treats him as an object or a tool. That means you can do the same.
How exactly can you discern that? Maybe this girl really thinks he's a nice dude and happens to find out he supposedly has an interesting profession. Honestly maybe the lies aren't getting the OP as far as he thinks it is. I assume most men I meet casually are lying to me about something.

Point is pay other people the courtesy you want to be paid.
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Old 09-15-2012, 03:56 PM
 
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If you feel bad about lying, then don't.

If not, most women you meat lie more than they could even admit to themselves anyway so even steven regardless.
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Old 09-15-2012, 03:57 PM
 
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If you feel bad about lying, then don't.

If not, most women you meat lie more than they could even admit to themselves anyway so even steven regardless.
Real mature.
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Old 09-15-2012, 04:02 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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You got it Kenneth. If a women sleeps with a guy because she thinks she can benefit from this situations she clearly treats him as an object or a tool. That means you can do the same.
Mutual objectification...mmm. Can't say I find it very savory but I suppose I can understand the logic.
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Old 09-15-2012, 05:35 PM
 
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How exactly can you discern that? Maybe this girl really thinks he's a nice dude and happens to find out he supposedly has an interesting profession. Honestly maybe the lies aren't getting the OP as far as he thinks it is. I assume most men I meet casually are lying to me about something. Point is pay other people the courtesy you want to be paid.
Are you for real? Women want guys with "interesting professions" who make lost of money. That's been the case since Cinderella to all girls dreaming of rock stars. When you are in the dating game, which is all about getting laid, whatever works - works
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Old 09-15-2012, 05:38 PM
 
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If you feel bad about lying, then don't.

If not, most women you meat lie more than they could even admit to themselves anyway so even steven regardless.
Ever found a women who hasn't lied about her age? Maybe when she was 21 All these dating profiles listing woman's body type as athletic or few extra pounds? When you see them you know they meant few hundred extra pounds

If you don't want to lie then don't but in any case don't come back whining about your lack of success in dating
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Old 09-15-2012, 05:40 PM
 
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Ever found a women who hasn't lied about her age? Maybe when she was 21 All these dating profiles listing woman's body type as athletic or few extra pounds? When you see them you know they meant few hundred extra pounds
You're all lying to each other. How lame. I cannot imagine having to live that out.
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