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It that instance, it isn't. However if she was bisexual when she met me, and still wanted to be bisexual then there would be no dating at all. Here, she's willing to make a lifestyle change, so it's a traditional relationship in every way.
What do you mean wanted to be bisexual? It's a sexual orientation. Not a choice.
People on this thread seem to believe that bisexual = promiscuous. News flash: Bisexuals date, settle down, marry and have families with the person they fall in love with. Many are celibate for long periods. They are not all out there bonking anything that moves.
i'm not attracted to men, in any way shape or form. I can't point out an attractive guy from an ugly guy, they're all just a bunch of guys to me. In this way, I don't think I'll ever see your point of view on this.
But, my point is, is she isn't dating other women when she's dating/in a relationship with me. If she wants to bring women home for me to watch, I'll stop her mid sentence and tell her to leave if she's still pursuing women romantically.
She may still find women attractive, and that's fine as it's part of her past. But she's willing to give up women to be with me in a relationship. I'm not forcing this change in her, she's making this choice. If she recants it and wants to still be with women, she'll be with women while not being in a relationship with me.
If you're dating a monogamous woman, then your fears are unfounded because she will not want to bring anyone home to share with you -- man or woman. She's only going to want you. I feel that you believe that by this hypothetical woman being bisexual, she will also be polyamorous or automatically into threesome. Is this correct?
As for attraction, that will never be her past. She will still find women beautiful just like you will still find other women other than her to be beautiful. But just because she might find some random woman on the street attractive doesn't mean she wants to be with them, as it is for you.
Girl on girl action is hot as hell. I would let my girlfriend have a girlfriend if she wanted to
99.999% of bisexual chicks end up settling down with men anyways
IMO most of them were not really bisexual in the first place. That's mostly for attention when your younger. I've never met a woman passed College who liked women that werent lesbians
If you're dating a monogamous woman, then your fears are unfounded because she will not want to bring anyone home to share with you -- man or woman. She's only going to want you. I feel that you believe that by this hypothetical woman being bisexual, she will also be polyamorous or automatically into threesome. Is this correct?
As for attraction, that will never be her past. She will still find women beautiful just like you will still find other women other than her to be beautiful. But just because she might find some random woman on the street attractive doesn't mean she wants to be with them, as it is for you.
Seeing attractive women. That part of seeing and not touching is something I've no problem with.
And yes, all of my interactions with bisexual women, they've all admitted to being promiscuous and doing threesomes etc. I'll add that I haven't had that many conversations or spent extended time with bisexual women. Those times were spent during my late teens to mid 20s so age could have also been a factor.
Also, as I'm writing this, I have a friend on FB(lol) who just made a post about how she just woke up from a night of having a 4-some with 3 other women, but she's dating a guy. It's part of the reason why my posts are skewed the way they are.
Guess some people enjoy watching the person they are attracted to or in love with getting off with someone else. I think it's called the cuckold fantasy.
I don't want to answer that truthfully cause I will come off as a hypocrite, in people eyes.
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