Sex...when is it the right time? (date, sexy, coping)

[jacobwilliam77]

When is it the right time to jump into bed after starting to date someone?

[capitol]

Not after some ridiculous predetermined arbitrary time period. Do it when the time feels right for you, not based on silly arbitrary guidelines.

[rhacer]

Whenever both of you are ready. You'll know.

[dave nz]

Originally Posted by jacobwilliam77

When is it the right time to jump into bed after starting to date someone?

Depends how heavy you both are and the quality of the bed. Some beds aren't too good at coping with people jumping into them.

[tropical87]

I believe in Sex at First Sight.

and then pillow talk consists of things like "What did you say your name was again?"

[rhacer]

Originally Posted by tropical87

I believe in Sex in First Sight.

and then pillow talk consists of things like "What did you say your name was again?"

Yes, but based on your posting history, you sound like many guy's walking wet dream.

I thought I was fairly libertine in my attitudes but you've given me a new perspective.

[the_dimwit]

After dark?
But, then again, mornings work too.

I guess any time is the right time for sexy time.

--Dim

[buddy5]

Now!

[tropical87]

Originally Posted by rhacer

Yes, but based on your posting history, you sound like many guy's walking wet dream.

I thought I was fairly libertine in my attitudes but you've given me a new perspective.

you are very sweet

[kimbo28]

I'm not the type of person that finds my attraction to someone growing over time. I've gone down that road, the attraction never blossomed and it felt like a waste of time because I had zero interest in the person sexually. I know by the end of the first date if I'd have sex with the person but I don't put out right away.

My answer too is "when it feels right" but for me, no matter how badly I want to, I won't do it on the first date.