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Old 01-05-2013, 05:04 PM
 
Location: United States of America
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Well I am 28 years old, no children, and I currently without a boyfriend and I am not as abnormal as I used to think I am. Several of my female friends fit this description but we are still looking LOL
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Old 01-05-2013, 05:07 PM
 
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depends on gender..

women, none of them...
men, all of them...

doesn't take you long to realize someone is lying...
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Old 01-05-2013, 05:10 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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depends on gender..

women, none of them...
men, all of them...

doesn't take you long to realize someone is lying...
Right, so the poster above you is lying, and all the recently graduated women I know are hiding a guy in their closets, just pretending to be single...
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Old 01-05-2013, 05:18 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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Right, so the poster above you is lying, and all the recently graduated women I know are hiding a guy in their closets, just pretending to be single...
I'm actually posting this from a Biology major's wardrobe. She only lets me out at night and says I'm the pizza guy. It's very dusty and mothbally in here but at least I get fed and watered regularly.
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Old 01-05-2013, 05:21 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I'm actually posting this from a Biology major's wardrobe. She only lets me out at night and says I'm the pizza guy. It's very dusty and mothbally in here but at least I get fed and watered regularly.
And you get nightly sex! Life could be worse! You could be the OP.
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Old 01-05-2013, 05:37 PM
 
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Right, so the poster above you is lying, and all the recently graduated women I know are hiding a guy in their closets, just pretending to be single...
Then why not just find a nice guy and be done with it all?

Brad Pitt isn't showing up...I promise...George Clooney doesn't know who you are...

All you have are guys like us...yet, 'we have problems'...

You'll end up with us regardless...it's just you're holding out for a guy who isn't available to you.

Then you grow older, and guys your age start dating 10 years younger, and you're out in the cold.

In college, I tried to warn you.

Find a nice guy and don't push him away.
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Old 01-05-2013, 05:49 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Then why not just find a nice guy and be done with it all?
Easier said than done. This is what a lot of women want. This is why some women approach shy guys.
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Old 01-05-2013, 05:57 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Find a nice guy and don't push him away.
I've been screwed over by more 'nice guys' than 'bad boys'.

In fact, the nerdy/shy guys can be some of the biggest a-holes out there.
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Old 01-05-2013, 06:13 PM
 
Location: Chicago IL
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I've been screwed over by more 'nice guys' than 'bad boys'.

In fact, the nerdy/shy guys can be some of the biggest a-holes out there.
That is true but that what happens when folks try categorize people instead taking things on a case by case basis.
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Old 01-05-2013, 06:14 PM
 
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Easier said than done. This is what a lot of women want. This is why some women approach shy guys.
It's funny, I know so many nice guys that are single just jonesing for some female attention...yet they don't get the time of day because they don't meet her other arbitrarily set standards...

It's hard to know what to tell them..

It's why I don't blame them for thinking the worst of women.

In the meantime, it's not like I don't have my own battles I'm fighting.

Women make me sick.

Society makes me sicker.

Just a pretty girl with some semblance of the intrinsic worth of life, someone determined not to waste it, why is that so hard?

We don't even deserve to exist...many just take that fact for granted. Like it was meant to be. My existence is just an accident...when I'm dead, it'll be a mistake corrected.

I wake up every morning and I think, 'why is this happening to me?..what did I do to deserve it?'

I mean, I could have been born poor, disabled, blind....and I wasn't....

Like survivor's guilt.
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