why does this keep happening to me!! (date, guy, love)
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Honestly! I feel like the relationship/love gods don't want me to be happy or be in a relationship. WTF?!!! EVERYTIME!!!! I got a date, something sh-itty happens. That made me cancel the dates.
Like now! I am in my happiest relationship wise, I got myself a BF who is the most decent, great guy EVER!. Today is his bday, we made plans. He message me yesterday he had car trouble. That does not affect me going in to his house to celebrate his bday coz i have my own car right?
guess what the F happened?!! My sis woke me up around 1 am and told me they had to borrow my car because her husband also had car trouble!!!!!!
Now i cant get back to sleep coz i've to tell my BF the bad news that I cant drive to his house today after all coz of this shi-tty situations that always comes up i swear to God EVERYTIME I had IMPORTANT date plans?!
why ? why? why? honestly why does it always happen to me?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
please tell me i am not the only having this 'sh-itty situation just comes up out of nowhere at the EXACT time I have IMPORTANT date plans?!'
now that makes me more annoyed why do i have to take a cab when nothing is wrong with my car? it's my sister's husband that should take a cab not me! it's just that i live with them so i can't tell them that.
i am also bothered that i switch the words when i message my BF, instead of typing - my sister's husband, i typed my husband's sis.
can this really be more shi-tty. i hope he accepts my explanation that im still sleepy when i typed it. my gosh...
It probably happens because you let it affect you so much. Sht happens to everyone. Just bite the bullet and get a cab. Or ask your sis to help you pay for it. Or offer to pay for her husbands cab.
Your putting wayyyy too much stress on yourself. Who the hell cares if you wrote a text the wrong way. If your bf is going to get upset or break up over something that artificial you need to leave him already.
Crap happens. Let your sister's husband use your car and plan your bf birthday another day. He will be that age for 365 days. It will be okay.
Your putting wayyyy too much stress on yourself. Who the hell cares if you wrote a text the wrong way. If your bf is going to get upset or break up over something that artificial you need to leave him already.
Crap happens. Let your sister's husband use your car and plan your bf birthday another day. He will be that age for 365 days. It will be okay.
People let little things bother them too much.
True. unfortunately i am that type that let little things bother me too much. It's just that he has been very nice to me and this is the day that i wanna do/reciprocate those good deeds for him.
He is usually up by now at 4am to work and he has not replied. He is very understanding so I doubt he will break up with me over this. it is just so very bad timing that's all. that's what i was actually gonna tell him that we most likely will celebrate his bday another day.
just sucks coz we plan this together and we miss each other. we also plan to make serious talk. ugh. hate this.
True. unfortunately i am that type that let little things bother me too much. It's just that he has been very nice to me and this is the day that i wanna do/reciprocate those good deeds for him.
He is usually up by now at 4am to work and he has not replied. He is very understanding so I doubt he will break up with me over this. it is just so very bad timing that's all. that's what i was actually gonna tell him that we most likely will celebrate his bday another day.
just sucks coz we plan this together and we miss each other. we also plan to make serious talk. ugh. hate this.
My gf also can take things too seriously at times. It happens.
He sounds like a nice guy, so do you (girl that is). I'm sure you will both figure something out.
It doesn't sound like a big deal. Calm down as life is too short to sweat small stuff like this. Things happen.
Agree with poster packer43064 that if he is not understanding on your plight he is not worth your time. A decent guy will understand.
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EVERYTIME!!!! I got a date, something sh-itty happens. That made me cancel the dates.
