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Old 01-16-2013, 01:22 PM
 
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Then why did you start this thread on your (ahem) very first day of posting?

 
Old 01-16-2013, 01:23 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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Then why did you start this thread on your (ahem) very first day of posting?

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Old 01-16-2013, 01:27 PM
 
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Then why did you start this thread on your (ahem) very first day of posting?
Probably because I'm off from work, due to my cold, and have relatively little to do. I thought it would be an interesting discussion, at best.
 
Old 01-16-2013, 01:29 PM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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Should I participate in actions, that I know are wrong, just to appease the man that I'm with? Or Should I be willing to stand by my convictions, irrespective of the consequences? I know first hand that it's difficult finding a man, who has similar views, but I'm willing to wait (even if I never meet such a person).

I'm sticking by my decision. I can't base my beliefs on what others choose to do. Each of us has free will.
Actions you believe are wrong. You do not know they are wrong. Getting someone's spit in your mouth while kissing is the LEAST messy part of an intimate sexual relationship with someone. If you don't like kissing I doubt you're going to like any of the rest of it.

Also wanted to add those actions shouldn't be done to appease the guy...they should be done because you want to do them too. I think posters who brought up asexuality might be on to something judging from your general distaste and how you speak about sex.
 
Old 01-16-2013, 01:29 PM
 
Location: Westminster, CO
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I'm curious OP, do you masturbate? You're assuring us that you can change yourself if the right guy is patient enough to get over the very high bar that you are setting.
 
Old 01-16-2013, 01:29 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Probably because I'm off from work, due to my cold, and have relatively little to do. I thought it would be an interesting discussion, at best.
So - what if we had told you that you should give up dating and accept your fate as a single person forever - would you have done that?
 
Old 01-16-2013, 01:32 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Exchanging saliva will be the least thing you do with bodily fluids after marriage..... I'm wondering if any of those things gross you out also?
 
Old 01-16-2013, 01:33 PM
 
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I'm curious OP, do you masturbate? You're assuring us that you can change yourself if the right guy is patient enough to get over the very high bar that you are setting.
I know this is the internet, but it's still odd that you feel it's ok, to ask such a personal question to a complete stranger.
 
Old 01-16-2013, 01:36 PM
 
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So - what if we had told you that you should give up dating and accept your fate as a single person forever - would you have done that?
LOL, no.
 
Old 01-16-2013, 01:37 PM
 
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K. Then I will ask it. Mary, Do you masturbate?

Maybe she doesn't masturbate. Maybe she Marybates.
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