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It seems to me that you are looking for reasons to end this relationship.
I'm 55 now and I did end the relationship. Turns out my spidey senses were right bc he turned out to be a nut job. Within 6 mo after I broke up with him he was engaged to someone else. Either they're married now or she caught him talking to himself and ran.
Oh yeah and after I broke it off with him he called my ex-husband to discuss our "problems." Talk about embarrassing and great ammo for the ex to use against me in our next argument.
Oh yeah and after I broke it off with him he called my ex-husband to discuss our "problems." Talk about embarrassing and great ammo for the ex to use against me in our next argument.
He was arguing with me lol. Actually I don't know what set him off but I suspect it had something to do with his resenting child support payments. I was flummoxed bc I did not "take him to the cleaners." I did get an inheritance tho and I guess he resents that.
He was arguing with me lol. Actually I don't know what set him off but I suspect it had something to do with his resenting child support payments. I was flummoxed bc I did not "take him to the cleaners." I did get an inheritance tho and I guess he resents that.
Oh, I wasn't sure if it would be a child involved since you are a couple years older than me, our children are all grown have their own families and the youngest just turned 28. Thankfully I don't have to even talk to my ex husband, either one of them...
I'm 55 now and I did end the relationship. Turns out my spidey senses were right bc he turned out to be a nut job. Within 6 mo after I broke up with him he was engaged to someone else. Either they're married now or she caught him talking to himself and ran.
Okay, that makes no sense to me.
Did you break up with current boyfriend or are you talking about ex husband?
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Yes I see what you're saying but that would be quite a feat and for several reasons:
1. He started the FB account after we started dating and has maybe 2 friends on there, one of them being me of course. At first it said single and that was a couple of months ago. He never does anything to his FB so I almost never look at it and not sure why I did today--I think to see if he'd put any pix up. 2. I go there every other weekend and stay for the whole weekend and he comes here on the other--we spent a large part of the holidays together also 3. He has a 13 yo son living with him
I had an experience like yours and am very sensitive to the fact that a man might not want me at his house and it's usually not for a good reason and even if he didn't mind trying to sneak me over every now and then while trying very hard to look like he's not sneaking, there's always the kid.
So, ask him - "Who is your domestic partner?"
Maybe its just wishful thinking, or putting the fact that you two are a meaningful couple out there so others dont think he is still available?
Consider his answer. He could be just dreaming of you, or he could have someone else in his life too.
The only person who can bring you any peace on the subject is him, and even then, it might be wise to keep your eyes open if he gives you an answer in your favor.
Did you break up with current boyfriend or are you talking about ex husband?
This is an old thread. She broke up with the boyfriend and then the exbf went and talked to her ex husband.
None of this is current.
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