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Old 02-19-2019, 02:01 PM
 
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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Old thread. 2013. Just fyi.

I haven't really been hit on by underage guys that I can think of, as an adult. But I was the underage teenage girl who would hit on grown men, about 1993-1997. Sometimes wound up sleeping with 'em.

But I remember one guy who worked at the mall...poor dude...see this is what makes me angry about "abstinence only" sex ed, is that they don't teach anything about CONSENT. Hell even sex ed that teaches the mechanics of the act and STIs and contraceptives...still didn't do enough in this area. But as a teen, I didn't have a very good ethical framework. I would harass this poor man relentlessly when he was at work. He said no so many times, and I insisted that because my parents wouldn't call the cops there should be NO PROBLEM! It's embarrassing to think about, honestly. He should only have had to tell me no, once. I'm not sure how old he was but definitely in his 20's.
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Old 02-19-2019, 02:22 PM
 
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Does this happen to anyone?

It happened to me yesterday, and it's happened a few times in the past as well. When I say 'teens', I'm not talking about 19-year-olds...I'm talking about minors who are still in high school.

How have you handled the situation?
hahahahaha...it reminds me of that song...Stacey's mom has got it going on, she's all I want and Ive waiting for soooo long!
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Old 02-19-2019, 02:27 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Unfortunately, yes teenagers still try to hit on me. My little brother's friends in particular, my mom still gets hit on by men 10 to 30 years younger than her. It's hella uncomfortable.

It's due to us looking so young for our respective ages. I'll be 26 in April and my mom 53.
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Old 02-19-2019, 03:06 PM
 
Location: all over the place (figuratively)
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One time, in someone's house, another guest, probably about 17, was acting a little sassy with me. She seemed to think I was in my teens. I was not in my teens. I didn't really respond to her. I heard she later married someone maybe 5 years older than her.
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Old 02-19-2019, 03:25 PM
 
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When my daughter was in her late teens she always had friends over. One friend was this bad boy type, guitar and tattoos. I was standing near the bathroom, he looks out the bathroom door and asked if we had any body wash. I asked him if he was going to take a shower? He smirked and replied: "I don't know, are we?"

I wasn't even flattered, it was so weird, like...are you talking to me?? The same as if he were mentally ill or something. I don't know how people take advantage of that kind of situation. It's so sketchy to me.
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Old 02-19-2019, 03:37 PM
 
Location: As of 2022….back to SoCal. OC this time!
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It's sketchy...why would anyone want to take advantage of a minor even with flirting? Treat it as any unwanted advance...It's not a compliment.
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Old 02-19-2019, 06:07 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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It's never happened to me.

Your beautiful, darlin'...
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