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Old 02-05-2013, 10:56 AM
 
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Does this happen to anyone?

It happened to me yesterday, and it's happened a few times in the past as well. When I say 'teens', I'm not talking about 19-year-olds...I'm talking about minors who are still in high school.

How have you handled the situation?
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Old 02-05-2013, 10:59 AM
 
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Yes, it happens all the time. Im 37 years old, and this past summer there have been several instances where 16-18 year old girls have hit one me, asked to make out with me etc etc. I do prefer younger women, and have dated women int heir early 20s, but Im certainly not interested in someone who isnt an adult.
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Old 02-05-2013, 11:00 AM
 
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Take it as flattery and move on. I think these things effect men and women differently. For the most part and I could be wrong, but when a good looking teen boy hits on an older woman the woman walks away happy and the kid just made her day, but when a good looking teengirl hits on an older guy thats where the trouble happens.
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Old 02-05-2013, 11:04 AM
 
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Hit back... simple as that, if your a woman and they are physically out power'n you, then pick up an equalizer... kids today think they are tuff right up too the day they are proved wrong.
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Old 02-05-2013, 11:06 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Yes had it happen in December at my son's basketball practice.
The high schoolers came in for their practice after them. And one boy smiled and said,"Hey how are you?"
I just stared at him. And my son said," Dude did that guy just hit on you!?"

Next time I saw him, I made a note to say,"My son" in front of him since he is 10. Maybe put two and two together.
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Old 02-05-2013, 11:07 AM
 
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i hit on older dimes all da time
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Old 02-05-2013, 11:07 AM
 
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Hit back... simple as that, if your a woman and they are physically out power'n you, then pick up an equalizer... kids today think they are tuff right up too the day they are proved wrong.
Whoa Nelly. "Hitting on" someone is flirting, not assault.
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Old 02-05-2013, 11:07 AM
 
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Take it as flattery and move on. I think these things effect men and women differently. For the most part and I could be wrong, but when a good looking teen boy hits on an older woman the woman walks away happy and the kid just made her day, but when a good looking teengirl hits on an older guy thats where the trouble happens.

Agreed. Whenever this happens, I chuckle and go about my business. I don't pursue anything, because I'm into jail time
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Old 02-05-2013, 11:08 AM
 
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Whoa Nelly. "Hitting on" someone is flirting, not assault.


LMAO!
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Old 02-05-2013, 11:09 AM
 
Location: NYC
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It happens often to me, because 80% of adult black women are incredibly fat and I am slim and fit. Teen black boys equate a slim black female body with youth. I just look them straight in the eye, which makes them suddenly see their own mom. I think it is cute and flattering.
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