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What I'm trying to say is that when a man is with an ugly women, you know he's with her because he loves the PERSON she is. As a HUMAN BEING.
When a man is with an attractive woman, most chances (not always) are that he is interested in her as A PIECE OF MEAT. For sexual pleasure only.
That's why I stopped dating for awhile because so many men judged on my looks. Even now when I did online I deleted any man who made comments about my looks.
Everything about the OP's post rings true with my experiences, but I can't speak for anyone else. Dating is a market, so packaging and message is very important. My highly attractive friends had fewer, exclusive relationships and more control in a relationship. But this is based on my individual definition of who is "highly attractive."
That's why I stopped dating for awhile because so many men judged on my looks. Even now when I did online I deleted any man who made comments about my looks.
Men often can't help it, they are wired that way. Once they get to know you, they'll hopefully get past being so captivated by looks. When you get to know them, you can find out if they are thru-and-thru superficial or just captivated by beauty.
This simply isn't true. It sounds like she was cherry-picking examples that supported her thesis. Plenty of very attractive women use their looks to play as many men as they can. It's an ego-trip.
No, I don't KNOW that.
That's just my experience (and as somebody who's considered "attractive", I've been used for my looks...A LOT.)
And of course there are exceptions.
When a man is with an attractive woman, most chances (not always) are that he is interested in her as A PIECE OF MEAT. For sexual pleasure only.
Disagree with your entire post.... But I will say that the above sentence is why many highly attractive women have fewer partners, as they need to carefully weed through all the guys who think like that...
That's just my experience (and as somebody who's considered "attractive", I've been used for my looks...A LOT.)
And of course there are exceptions.
It's also possible that what you think is the base state is the exception.
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