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This might just be his natural state. Most everyone puts on a good front before they fall into old habits. Sometimes it happens after one date, sometimes it takes a few years. I remember my Step Dad courting my Mom. He was on best behavior for ten years before turning into a couch potato. I dated a woman who showed her true self before the second date.
I wouldn't be with someone who I had to wait on making plans,It doesn't work for me!! changing plans is normal and acceptable because things crop up and can't be helped but constantly changing plans at the last minute would **** me off as its rude and inconsiderate.......if this is happening after 3 months I wouldn't stick around but thats just my opinion.
He wants this relationship with you when it's convenient for him. And not for nothing, but it sounds like he turns to you when there's no one else to hang out with.
Sorry, but he's just not that into you. I'd get rid of him and move on.
We are going to meet tonight I will try to talk with him again, let's see what's going on I tell you later.
Good luck! Just don't give up what you want out of a relationship. If you want companionship, and equal-give-and-take, and he can't or won't give that to you, he's not right for you. Time you spend with the wrong guy is time you could be spending finding the right one.
I only see my bf on Saturdays and Sundays. Works for us and our schedules. Someone will always feel left out if the one spouse is always busy while the other one waits around.
We finally met yesterday, we had dinner and then we went to some pubs, everything was all right and he admitted my reasons of annoy... he told me again that it was just one isolated week and it doesn't mean anyhting bad, and next time he has to cancel something or do the same he is going to tell me with more time.
He is still telling me about his family meal, so now I suppose time and next days I'll see what's going on, we are going to meet tomorrow. (it is the plan at least)
Glad it worked out, but if I were you I'd make sure I had other things going on in my life and STOP waiting for him before you make plans. He can make last minute plans and break plans last minute for one reason and one reason only, because you show him it's okay, that you'll be sitting there waiting for him regardless. If he called you last minute a couple times and heard you say "Oh, sorry, wish you had called earlier I already made plans with my girlfriends tonight" then he would learn that if he wants to lock you down, he needs to call earlier.
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