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Old 04-05-2013, 02:27 PM
 
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He claims he is and that he has sex just because. I don't know what he's thinking and I really don't know why he contacts me. I've even told him not to contact me about this but he does. A few times he asked for sexy photos for me, which made me feel ill.

 
Old 04-05-2013, 02:27 PM
 
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I actually think so too, which disturbs me. He is a fundamentalist only didn't act like it. For example he wanted to remain a virgin until marriage but wanted me to teach him other sexual techniques so he could know it for a future wife. As in actually perform the sex act and have him do it to me (I declined).
Hmmmm. Yeah. He sounds kinda weird.
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Old 04-05-2013, 02:28 PM
 
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I only mentioned her looks because I know he wasn't attracted to her. I know his type and she's not it. However she had other traits he wanted so he married her anyway. She isn't pretty or thin and that is a fact and part of the reason he contacts me periodically. He should have married someone else if he is repulsed but he didn't.
No, you mentioned her looks because that was YOUR opinion and you stated that you felt that before he supposedly "confessed" to you.

Who cares if she isn't pretty or thin. And I'll tell you this too...he's married, he's playing the poor me card to get laid. He probably really doesn't even think these things about his wife...he's just attempting to make himself sound pathetic. You are 42 yrs old...don't you know how the world works yet???

Cripes.
 
Old 04-05-2013, 02:28 PM
 
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He claims he is and that he has sex just because. I don't know what he's thinking and I really don't know why he contacts me. I've even told him not to contact me about this but he does. A few times he asked for sexy photos for me, which made me feel ill.
Tell him the next time he contacts you, you'll forward his messages to his wife.
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Old 04-05-2013, 02:29 PM
 
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IDDY, you just dont get it.

It isnt your place to be judgmental. You believe it is. You are wrong.
You have been wired to think that judging people for things they can't control is acceptable. Granted, obesity is sometimes controllable, but a woman that had 5 kids is not going to look like a model.

At the end of the day, who cares if she is obese? If I were you, I'd be more concerned with the a-hole that married a woman and had 5 kids with her and is confiding in you inappropriately.
She was never thin so having kids isn't an excuse in her case. I do think he has issues for contacting me as I asked him not to bother me. In fact at one point I unfriended him on FB but he begged me to take him back. I find him a hypocrite because he brags about his "perfect wife" while he talks to me about her including complaining about her weight.
 
Old 04-05-2013, 02:29 PM
 
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Old 04-05-2013, 02:30 PM
 
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Tell him the next time he contacts you, you'll forward his messages to his wife.
I threatened that one time and he sad something like he would tell her I slept with all these guys we knew (a lie). Normally I ignore him and ignored his last message.
 
Old 04-05-2013, 02:31 PM
 
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No, you mentioned her looks because that was YOUR opinion and you stated that you felt that before he supposedly "confessed" to you.

Who cares if she isn't pretty or thin. And I'll tell you this too...he's married, he's playing the poor me card to get laid. He probably really doesn't even think these things about his wife...he's just attempting to make himself sound pathetic. You are 42 yrs old...don't you know how the world works yet???

Cripes.
Because I had my doubts about the marriage. It happened fast.
 
Old 04-05-2013, 02:33 PM
 
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I never thought i'd say this but..... "COME BACK NYANNA, All IS FORGIVEN!!"
 
Old 04-05-2013, 02:38 PM
 
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I never thought i'd say this but..... "COME BACK NYANNA, All IS FORGIVEN!!"

LOL...I repped you on an earlier comment...but it's funny, I've been wondering where she's been.
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