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Old 04-13-2013, 11:49 AM
 
Location: NYC
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Well, you're still a sell out.
I have been called a sell-out by low end blacks my whole life.

 
Old 04-13-2013, 11:50 AM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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My grandmother refused to date white guys simply because she got dumped and burned by my white grandfather. She was hurting.
She was also racist, per the definition.

She believed that race was the determinant for the trait of "burning".
 
Old 04-13-2013, 11:51 AM
 
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White men who are lower on the totem pole date minority women who are status daters quite often. Minority women who want to date a white man at any cost often end up with white men who are losers. Not all wm/af or wm/bf pairings are like that, but it is a relatively common phenomenon. Men are much better that revising their tastes in the name of sexual opportunity.
This is news to me. I'm not really desperate for a white man. I tried to date a white guy because people online kept telling me that this would increase my chances of finding somebody. And they said WM like darkskin (which isn't true all the time) but it didn't happen. Oh well. I'm not losing sleep. Maybe a nice AA guy will give me a chance

But what makes a white guy low on the social totem pole, his job his looks? I cant' really tell what type of white guy is considered good looking in the white community..
 
Old 04-13-2013, 11:51 AM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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What about white men who date minority women because they truly believe they are inherently inferior and as such are more easily attainable? It happens fairly often. Is it racism as per the definition you posted?
Is race the determinant, or is social status.

If it is race, then it is racist.
 
Old 04-13-2013, 11:54 AM
 
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Omg this thread started out good.....What happened??
 
Old 04-13-2013, 11:55 AM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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She was also racist, per the definition.

She believed that race was the determinant for the trait of "burning".
Oh Please, it is very "classy" of you. Take one sentence out of the entire post to justify your narrow minded opinion.
 
Old 04-13-2013, 11:56 AM
 
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White men who are lower on the totem pole date minority women who are status daters quite often. Minority women who want to date a white man at any cost often end up with white men who are losers. Not all wm/af or wm/bf pairings are like that, but it is a relatively common phenomenon. Men are much better that revising their tastes in the name of sexual opportunity.
I'm not sure how common of a phenomenon it is. Do you think that your white ex-husband was lower on the totem pole?

I can only speak for myself, but I personally don't date black or non-black losers.
 
Old 04-13-2013, 12:02 PM
 
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I know I am going to get bashed for this, but DH and I both think that men who date only Asian women are prone to being pedophiles. Many, many Asian women are very small and short with no distinguishing secondary sexual characteristics like hips and breasts - they are basically built like a 12 year old. A lot of Asian porn also shows women in school girl outfits and acting very submissive and younger than they really are. Bash me all you want for saying this, but I know men who feel the same as I do.

Interestingly, I saw a website that showed the most popular google searches for porn by state. The states like California had the words "teen" and "Asian" in the top spots together, while many other states had teen at the bottom of the ranks, and asian did not even make it onto the searches.
Sorry not all asians girls are built like a boy. I'm 5'5 120 pounds and have 37 in hips yeah so get your facts straight.
 
Old 04-13-2013, 12:02 PM
 
Location: NYC
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I'm not sure how common of a phenomenon it is. Do you think that your white ex-husband was lower on the totem pole?

I can only speak for myself, but I personally don't date black or non-black losers.
It depends on your personal perspective. My ex had no ambition whatsoever and was chronically underemployed, but his family is wealthy and has a name that is well known.

Either way, he does not qualify for the phenomenon I speak of as he dates white women too.
 
Old 04-13-2013, 12:07 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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Sorry not all asians girls are built like a boy. I'm 5'5 120 pounds and have 37 in hips yeah so get your facts straight.
Her user name is B Ma China. Maybe she is talking about herself
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