Would you date someone of another race who only dated another (your) race? (female, therapy)

[purple rage]

Originally Posted by OngletNYC

It depends on your personal perspective. My ex had no ambition whatsoever and was chronically underemployed, but his family is wealthy and has a name that is well known.

Either way, he does not qualify for the phenomenon I speak of as he dates white women too.

so look out for white guys who only date black women?

[Amelie90]

Originally Posted by OngletNYC

It depends on your personal perspective. My ex had no ambition whatsoever and was chronically underemployed, but his family is wealthy and has a name that is well known.

Either way, he does not qualify for the phenomenon I speak of as he dates white women too.

Ok.

[filihok]

Originally Posted by lilyflower3191981

Her user name is B Ma China. Maybe she is talking about herself

I could be B Machina.
Machina is the russian word for car.

[lilyflower3191981]

Originally Posted by filihok

I could be B Machina.
Machina is the russian word for car.

It could also be B Ma China I said maybe she is talking about herself, Not absolutely.

Your point?

[Amelie90]

Originally Posted by purple rage

so look out for white guys who only date black women?

I would just avoid ones like this :

[filihok]

Originally Posted by lilyflower3191981

It could also be B Ma China I said maybe she is talking about herself, Not absolutely.

Your point?

Panties ruffled dear?

I simply said what it could be.
Same as you.

[purple rage]

Originally Posted by Sweet Like Sugar

I would just avoid ones like this :

LOL He is so annoying. But yeah might as well get the real thing instead of a watered down imitation

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by filihok

That depends.
I move every few months to a year and I don't take my bicycles with me.

Currently, I'm riding a Giant Roam.

Which one do you recomend?

[filihok]

Originally Posted by Raena77

Which one do you recomend?

Different for everyone.

How much do you ride?
Where do you ride?
How much do you want to spend?
Which do you like how it looks?
Which do you like how it feels?

In the end they're all just bikes. You get on and pedal.

[FBJ]

Originally Posted by Trimac20

I know it's another 'race' thread, and one may quibble over the reality of the concept of race, but in America and much of the world it's still an issue people face and deal with.

I have a friend who's like this. He's white but he only dates Asian, mostly Japanese girls. I won't go into his reasons (I don't know them all either) and I am AWARE it is a preference (don't lecture me over this). I remember one time I was talking to this girl he had a fling with, who was Japanese, and she said she hated white men who ONLY went after Japanese girls. She felt there was just something wrong with it. Of course, yes, dear reader, the obvious fact was she did have a fling with my friend, so maybe it was part bitterness, who knows. Fact is, she thought there was something distasteful about white men who specifically chased asian women.

Another common situation I've heard is black men who only dated white women. Some black women aren't really happy about this. Course it's none of their business who someone else dates, but one has to wonder: is it possible some of these black men don't think their women are good enough? Same with Asian women who think white men are somehow superior and won't even look at Asian men.

I'm not condemning it harshly, but I will say it's a bit unnatural to ONLY be interested in dating another race. It's different from just being attracted to all people, INCLUDING your own group, but to totally rule out your own group? Personally I'm open to dating women of all backgrounds although I will admit to having aesthetic preferences.

So my question is: would you date someone of another race who ONLY dated people of your race? Say if you were a white woman, what would you think of a black guy who was only into white girls?

I'm quite seriously about this question, so I hope it doesn't get derailed and closed. I'm Asian myself, and have seen videos of white girls who like Asian guys, and some of them say they prefer Asian guys. Of course some guys might watch these vids and feel good about it, but I'd rather date someone who saw me as a person, not because of my 'race' or anything like that. Of course to prefer is one thing, but not date at all? At the very least I find it a peculiar form of preference which of course cannot argued to be innately genetic as such a situation wouldn't arise out of a nature. If you raised totally among another race/ethnicity than at least it's more understandable though.

Intelligent responses please.

No, I would not want to be part of someone's sexual fantasy and would only prefer to date someone outside my race who actually was attracted to me because I have nice features not because I;m blaack.