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Old 04-13-2013, 12:38 PM
 
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Eventually I do want to get into a relationship and finish my major. Apart from wanting to become the owner of a corporation this is my simple list of what I'm currently looking towards a man. My requirements have been updated and it's not the same as when I was 18-22 years old (I'm 26 now)

Qualities
1) Handsome European (not just a merely attrative 6/10 in looks but the top)
2) Career-minded like me
3) Likes traveling
4) Great personality and isn't into the sex double standard.... overall is a nice person
5) No party animal, stud nor one that drinks and/or smokes heavily
6) Wants marriage but NO KIDS
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Old 04-13-2013, 12:41 PM
 
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Wow!!

Aaannnnything else????
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Old 04-13-2013, 12:44 PM
 
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So will I find him or is this almost impossible? It has gotten to the point where I've decided not to settle for whatever is available. I will travel to Europe if that's what it'll take to find him there.
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Old 04-13-2013, 12:45 PM
 
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Wow!!

Aaannnnything else????
No, that's just about it. Was that too much? I know certain women (and men) that have way more requirements. This is just 6 top requirements.
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Old 04-13-2013, 12:54 PM
 
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The Man Paradox.
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Old 04-13-2013, 12:58 PM
 
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The Man Paradox.
So he can't have all those 3 qualities in the circle? I'm very sure he has to be there somewhere.
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Old 04-13-2013, 12:58 PM
 
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Sorry OP, but to be fully honest, I think your list is just a tad unrealistic...I mean, how many men out there can actually fulfill all of these kinds of requirements, after all?

Would you be willing to bend or go a lil easier on certain requirements, for example if you met someone if he met some or most of the requirements you had listed, but not all?
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Old 04-13-2013, 01:03 PM
 
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Would you be willing to bend or go a lil easier on certain requirements, for example if you met someone if he met some or most of the requirements you had listed, but not all?
I used to be very humble and simple in the past and it has gotten me no where.

My ex bf hardly fit any of those requirements but I was only 19 at the time when I met him (and a virgin) so I didn't know any better. But now, if a met a type like my ex bf (likes parties, wants kids in the future, doesn't like studying and is an average frugal guy), he would be dumped instantly. At some point, I would get bored with his conversations; he knew nothing about politics, psychology or at least some scientific topics while I was in college then (I took a break from school but I've been back since late 2011).

I've become more demanding as I'm older now.
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Old 04-13-2013, 01:20 PM
 
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The Man Paradox.

When I was in high school people asked me to spare them if I ever planned to shoot up the school.

So much for being a quiet, nice, attractive, and smart guy. Didn't stop women from taking shots at me, however I wasn't interested in women at the time either, thus being accused of gay as well...



...That's interesting.
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Old 04-13-2013, 01:22 PM
 
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Eventually I do want to get into a relationship and finish my major. Apart from wanting to become the owner of a corporation this is my simple list of what I'm currently looking towards a man. My requirements have been updated and it's not the same as when I was 18-22 years old (I'm 26 now)

Qualities
1) Handsome European (not just a merely attrative 6/10 in looks but the top)
2) Career-minded like me
3) Likes traveling
4) Great personality and isn't into the sex double standard.... overall is a nice person
5) No party animal, stud nor one that drinks and/or smokes heavily
6) Wants marriage but NO KIDS

"requirements"??

You make it sound like you are planning to conduct interviews next Monday at 8:00 a.m.
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