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Old 04-26-2013, 06:30 PM
 
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Attraction is usually not about how good-looking you are. Men, especially young men, get this confused all the time.

 
Old 04-26-2013, 06:31 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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So it is possible ?
No, not for you with this girl.

No.

No.

No.

No.

No.

No.

No.
 
Old 04-26-2013, 06:33 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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No, she's never going to be into you. Move on and don't waste your time. However; having said that, you're not a bad looking guy. You're average....nothing wrong with that. When I met my husband, I thought he was average. He even had crooked teeth (he got braces when he was 35)! We've been happily married for 28 years. It wasn't his looks that captivated me, it was his personality.

Just work on your career, interests and hobbies. I believe everything else will fall into place. There is someone out there who will think you're just perfect!

Sue
 
Old 04-26-2013, 06:33 PM
 
Location: Texas
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No, not for you with this girl.

No.

No.

No.

No.

No.

No.

No.
I do not appreciate you destroying all hope, of any possibilty of happiness for myself. The question was refering to people in general, not just my case.
 
Old 04-26-2013, 06:35 PM
 
Location: Texas
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No, she's never going to be into you. Move on and don't waste your time. However; having said that, you're not a bad looking guy. You're average....nothing wrong with that. When I met my husband, I thought he was average. He even had crooked teeth (he got braces when he was 35)! We've been happily married for 28 years. It wasn't his looks that captivated me, it was his personality.

Just work on your career, interests and hobbies. I believe everything else will fall into place. There is someone out there who will think you're just perfect!

Sue
So, how exactly do you know what I look like in real life???
 
Old 04-26-2013, 06:36 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I do not appreciate you destroying all hope, of any possibilty of happiness for myself. The question was refering to people in general, not just my case.
The only person destroying all hope and any possibility of happiness for you is YOU. You are obsessed with a girl who will never be interested in you and instead of trying to get over it and move on - you feed your obsession and refuse to get help. It's unhealthy and disturbing.

And, no, it is not possible to ever have a relationship with a girl who thinks you are unattractive. Even if you are unattractive, a girl who is interested in you will find you attractive.
 
Old 04-26-2013, 06:39 PM
 
Location: Texas
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The only person destroying all hope and any possibility of happiness for you is YOU. You are obsessed with a girl who will never be interested in you and instead of trying to get over it and move on - you feed your obsession and refuse to get help. It's unhealthy and disturbing.

And, no, it is not possible to ever have a relationship with a girl who thinks you are unattractive. Even if you are unattractive, a girl who is interested in you will find you attractive.
Moving on and; "getting over it" is not the solution. That will not make me happy. The only thing that will make me truly happy, is if I achieve my goal.
 
Old 04-26-2013, 06:40 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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So, how exactly do you know what I look like in real life???
Whose picture is on your profile?
 
Old 04-26-2013, 06:42 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I do not appreciate you destroying all hope, of any possibilty of happiness for myself. The question was refering to people in general, not just my case.
This is YOUR choice, not mine.

I was not the one who said to you, That girl in your class, the one who won't speak to you and grimaces whenever she sees you, she is the ONLY girl for you and you should devote your life to convincing her of that.

It's YOUR choice to follow flawed logic.

Now, in terms of people in general, Steven Tyler is proof it's possible.
 
Old 04-26-2013, 06:43 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Whose picture is on your profile?
Yes it is mine; but just because it is there does not mean it is intended to be used as reference material for the discussion of the thread. The picture is there to add more of a personal touch to the profile itself.
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