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Old 04-28-2013, 11:12 AM
 
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I am a bisexual guy and just met an amazing man, and just entered a sexual relationship with him. I've been lurking here awhile and noticed that this board is pretty open minded so I thought maybe I'd ask here. Well this guy is AWESOME in every way but his one BIG problem is his, um- lack of hygiene shall we say. It's completely embarrassing to describe it here so I figure just watch this video instead to see what I'm getting at

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He seems to think it's not a big deal and since a huge part of me would like to pursue the relationship further I've been too afraid to mention anything, for fear of running him off. Do you have any advice on how I should go through with this?

TIA.

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Old 04-28-2013, 11:18 AM
 
Location: Baltimore, MD
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I'm not going to watch the video but from what you wrote I suggest that he discuss this with a doctor.
If you're afraid to bring that up then the only choices you have is to put up with it or find someone else.
 
Old 04-28-2013, 11:21 AM
 
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I am a bisexual guy and just met an amazing man, and just entered a sexual relationship with him. I've been lurking here awhile and noticed that this board is pretty open minded so I thought maybe I'd ask here. Well this guy is AWESOME in every way but his one BIG problem is his, um- lack of hygiene shall we say. It's completely embarrassing to describe it here so I figure just watch this video instead to see what I'm getting at

He seems to think it's not a big deal and since a huge part of me would like to pursue the relationship further I've been too afraid to mention anything, for fear of running him off. Do you have any advice on how I should go through with this?

TIA.
Get him to realize it s a big deal, and if he likes you, then he will do it for you.

Remember that no one likes to be told they stink, so be very careful how you say it.
 
Old 04-28-2013, 12:03 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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No way am I watching that video.

Honey no matter who you like to ****, the rule in any relationship is honesty. If he can't deal, can you put up with the nasty?

If not, move on.
 
Old 04-28-2013, 12:04 PM
 
Location: where people are either too stupid to leave or too stuck to move
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Girl ...
 
Old 04-28-2013, 12:19 PM
 
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Well that video is hilarious and a light hearted way to address the issue. Thanks for the advice, I will bring this up to him next time. I am a power top when I am with guys so it will be very soon and I will keep you posted on the results.
 
Old 04-28-2013, 12:34 PM
 
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What part of him smells?
 
Old 04-28-2013, 12:39 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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What part of him smells?
Really!?! You have NO idea?
 
Old 04-28-2013, 12:41 PM
 
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Really!?! You have NO idea?
Yes, really. What part of him smells cause he never mentioned it in his post
 
Old 04-28-2013, 12:47 PM
 
Location: SW Missouri
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Isn't this kind of like jumping into the ocean and then being upset because you got wet? Obviously, the purpose of this part of the body is waste elimination. Expecting it to be a vagina is a little unreasonable. If you want a vagina, get a vagina.

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