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I decided to create this video to show that I'm not a troll or a severely mentally ill person. I am just a dark woman dealing with colorism dating woes. Hopefully, if you take the time to watch my vlog, you will understand my point of view and not be so quick to mock me.
Okay, now that we acknowledge colorism is a real problem and limits a lot of darkskinned women's dating options...can we get honest responses from men on why they exclude darkskinned women from their dating pool?
For the same reason that other men exclude women from their dating pool because of age. Or because of height, or weight, or hair color, or level of education or financial situation. It's their preference. Everyone has a preference. It's not always fair, but it's there.
But I doubt you'd be able to convince many that you are not the same person who has created countless, annoying threads on this exact same topic dozens and dozens of times.
If you are not Nyanna etc, then know that this topic has been done to death and that is why you will likely not get what you need here.
It's odd that you continue to post, yet you are bored with the topic. If something doesn't interest me, I move on or I don't even go into the thread.
This alone tells me that you have ulterior motives.
Like i already told you, bambi, what if this IS true? are you so UNBELIEVABLY SELF INVOLVED that you actually think you are the only one that goes through awful and unfair discrimination??? Because you are not! Many people suffer all kinds of discrimination and deal with all kind of burden, SO MUCH worse than what you are going through. Your problem is that you dont wanna do anything about it, JUST complain.
Sartre said "We are what we do with what is done to us"
Once again, I have offered something constructive (like starting you own forum) and you just tear that down.
You're only looking for certain responses. Waste of everyone's time.
Have fun with that.
And thanks. I am having a great day.
Peace & love shawwwwty!
I'm not looking for certain responses, I'm looking for honesty. Asking me to post this on another forum is beside the point. I have already posted it here, but in the future, I may very well post my comments on a black oriented site.
I'm not looking for certain responses, I'm looking for honesty. Asking me to post this in another forum is besides the point. I have already posted it here, but in the future, I may very well post my comments on a black oriented site.
The point is, dark women have serious problems finding a good guy, due to colorism. This is not a fake issue, it's real, but never discussed. We are told that it's all in our head and that if only we were nice, happy and cheerful 24 hours a day, our dating lives would be different, but this is a blatant lie.
Yes, black women have problems finding a good guy, but it's not because people are raciest against black women.
I mean, just because a White, Indian, or Middle eastern man doesn't want to date black women, that preference alone doesn't mean that they're raciest, it simply means that they prefer to be with their own kind and it's as simple as that.
Don't sit up in here and tell me that you don't have any preferences.... I'm sure you like one color over the other, one drink over the other, or one flavor over the other... We all have preferences...
The true reason why black women have serious problems finding a good guy is because there aren't many eligible black men to begin with. The pool of black men who have good jobs, no baggage, and a good head on their shoulders is really low. It's so low that if you're one of the few decent black men you will have a hard time trying to date any woman of any race (even black women) because nobody takes you seriously unless you're clearly the center for the Los Angeles Lakers.
Anyhow, so before you get upset at how hard you have it, go on POF as a man and read the profiles of women, many of them start out with, "NO BLACK GUYS". I bet you never been outright dismissal like that as a black woman.
Also, I plan to put together an online support group for dark women.
What black women need to do is travel overseas. Black women need to find a place where the men love dark skinned women, and where the men are willing to take care of them.
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Because you are not! Many people suffer all kinds of discrimination and deal with all kind of burden, SO MUCH worse than what you are going through. Your problem is that you dont wanna do anything about it, JUST complain.
