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Old 06-04-2013, 07:33 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Not in London or Toronto. You get some Italian Canadians and Greek Brits that do that, but that's an outdated idea. Parents save for college. College is so much more important to help pay for than weddings.
Before college was so expensive, they used to do both.


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Old 06-04-2013, 07:39 PM
 
Location: Toronto
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Before college was so expensive, they used to do both.


That was before my time.
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Old 06-04-2013, 08:00 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Before college was so expensive, they used to do both.


aka the good old days
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Old 06-04-2013, 08:01 PM
 
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No it doesn't have to. The problem is every woman wants a big spectacle.
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Old 06-04-2013, 08:04 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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No it doesn't have to. The problem is every woman wants a big spectacle.
So you didn't read any of this thread, where basically 12 pages of women said they did NOT have or want a big spectacle??
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Old 06-04-2013, 08:52 PM
 
Location: Democratic Peoples Republic of Redneckistan
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No wedding has to be "expensive", regardless of how many people are there. I wouldn't marry a guy who insisted on a huge, fancy expensive wedding, because that would indicate we do not have shared values, especially in a financial sense.

I have about 40 first cousins, plus about 20 aunts and uncles, not including their spouses. So, I have the potential to have a lot of people at my wedding, even if it is *just* family. But that doesn't mean it has to be pricey. I'm already thinking barbecue....
Same here...huge Scots Irish clan and a big BBQ or fish fry in a big old shady backyard is the ticket to a good time
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Old 06-04-2013, 09:04 PM
 
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That was before my time.
Some parents still do cover both. I just attended a family wedding where the bride's parents paid for the wedding and reception afterwards. And had paid for her college. Actually, it was a back yard reception, but there was a ton of food!
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Old 06-04-2013, 09:48 PM
 
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Some parents still do cover both. I just attended a family wedding where the bride's parents paid for the wedding and reception afterwards. And had paid for her college. Actually, it was a back yard reception, but there was a ton of food!
I see parents help pay for the wedding. But not pay for the whole thing. And most of the weddings are big and expensive. But most people are getting married later. Like my sister, they have the money to pay for an expensive wedding.
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Old 06-04-2013, 10:32 PM
 
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No it doesn't have to. The problem is every woman wants a big spectacle.
No, not EVERY woman.
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Old 06-04-2013, 10:33 PM
 
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Same here...huge Scots Irish clan and a big BBQ or fish fry in a big old shady backyard is the ticket to a good time
Agreed! lol
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