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Old 07-12-2013, 12:36 PM
 
Location: Des Moines IA
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[quote=MidwestGuy1;30451224]well, ive been here for several months, and she's never asked me.[/quot


It would be one thing if you said several years, but several months is still fairly new. There are women at my job who have asked me out to lunch, and guess what?? all they wanted was just company for lunch. It's just small talk dude. It's Friday, she's probably caught up on work, having a good day, waiting for the weekend to start and she's talking to everybody. Go have fun with your cougar and don't sweat it.
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Old 07-12-2013, 12:37 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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Yup, she's friendly. It almost sounds like she might call you "kiddo" next.

LOL...I'm in my 40's and work with a guy in his 20's. I've been calling him "kiddo" for about 4 years now

OP, we always ask each other about weekend plans and some of us at work call each other something cute because we're comfortable with one another. We know who we can be casual with and who we can't. Just because she asked about your plans could just mean that she's being pleansant and making conversation. I always say that it's good to be friendly and get along at work because we see co-workers more than our family
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Old 07-12-2013, 12:39 PM
 
Location: Texas
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She definitely has the hots for you and wants to bump bottom parts on her desk on company time! Get on it bro before she loses interest!!!















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Old 07-12-2013, 12:42 PM
 
Location: Finally escaped The People's Republic of California
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how do I seem needy?

im banging that cougar, i dont need a gf.
Then you have your answer, or was it a dream?
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Old 07-12-2013, 12:43 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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im banging that cougar, i dont need a gf.
You are? Only minutes after she breezed by your desk? You work fast, kid! I guess you don't need us, then. We can close the thread.
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Old 07-12-2013, 12:45 PM
 
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You are? Only minutes after she breezed by your desk? You work fast, kid! I guess you don't need us, then. We can close the thread.
i've mentioned my cougar before
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Old 07-12-2013, 12:45 PM
 
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She definitely has the hots for you and wants to bump bottom parts on her desk on company time! Get on it bro before she loses interest!!!
Anus to anus ehh.... .... kinky!
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Old 07-12-2013, 12:49 PM
 
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You better clear your plans with your other cougar.

Good gawd....
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Old 07-12-2013, 12:51 PM
 
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well, ive been here for several months, and she's never asked me.
You passed your probationary period, so she probably sees you as a genuine coworker now and not someone who might be let go the day before probation is up.

Really, there is no need to analyze every interaction. She's not hitting on you in any way, shape, or form.
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Old 07-12-2013, 12:55 PM
 
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Woman: Hi
Man: You want me, don't you?

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