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Old 07-21-2013, 08:20 PM
 
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Also, sex and love are two different things. You can have sex without love and vice versa. You don't have to lose your virginity to someone you love. Are you a chick or something? Sow your oats while you can and settle down afterwards.
Hm. So only "chicks" want to have sex in the context of love? Men don't? Really.

You accuse him of being a "chick" as if there were something shameful or silly about being a woman. Not cool.
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Old 07-21-2013, 08:20 PM
 
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Dude, in another thread you stated that you don't talk to girls so how on earth are you going to lose your virginity if you are scared to approach a female?

Also, sex and love are two different things. You can have sex without love and vice versa. You don't have to lose your virginity to someone you love. Are you a chick or something? Sow your oats while you can and settle down afterwards.

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1: I never said I do not talk to women. Only that I do not approach/ask out women. Big difference.

2 I also never stated I was afraid to approach. Only that I don't think my approach would be welcomed. Big difference.

3: spare me your criticisms of how I wish to lose my virginity.
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Old 07-21-2013, 08:33 PM
 
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Hm. So only "chicks" want to have sex in the context of love? Men don't? Really.

You accuse him of being a "chick" as if there were something shameful or silly about being a woman. Not cool.
Don't worry about it. The guy is a jackass.
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Old 07-21-2013, 10:39 PM
 
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Don't worry about it. The guy is a jackass.
I have to wonder why the OP made this thread. Every thread about older guys who are virgins usually turns into a "kick 'em while they're down" session. Not exactly what a 40 year old virgin needs. this horse has been beaten to death.

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Old 07-21-2013, 10:45 PM
 
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wouldn't know, i dont make a habit of asking peoples sexual experience levels
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Old 07-21-2013, 10:56 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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The horse never dies.

At least not on CD.

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Old 07-21-2013, 10:57 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Hm. So only "chicks" want to have sex in the context of love? Men don't? Really.

mostly.

You accuse him of being a "chick" as if there were something shameful or silly about being a woman. Not cool.
being like a man when you're a woman is bad, being like a woman when you're a man is bad.

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1: I never said I do not talk to women. Only that I do not approach/ask out women. Big difference.

it's the same thing

2 I also never stated I was afraid to approach. Only that I don't think my approach would be welcomed. Big difference.

same thing though,

that's your fear talking and rationalizing your inaction

as long as you approach reasonably intelligently(not someone who is obviously busy like a cop with his gun drawn), have reasonable social skills, don't look like you just came from haunting something for a scooby doo episode and aren't super unlucky you'll be fine


3: spare me your criticisms of how I wish to lose my virginity.
you sound like a woman, just saiyan
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Old 07-21-2013, 10:59 PM
 
Location: NYC
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the joke was bad, bro.
of all the people in the world, I think I'm the expert on comedy as long as we're not considering professionals
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Old 07-22-2013, 04:10 AM
 
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being like a man when you're a woman is bad, being like a woman when you're a man is bad.



you sound like a woman, just saiyan
You are as big a jackass as that other idiot. You want to use prostitutes fine knock yourself out. You and ryu can fight it out over who gets the sloppy seconds. It does not make me sound like a woman because I do not want to use a prostitute. One other thing. My interactions with women have started with either being introduced, like with the coworker I nearly lost it to, or a conversation naturally begins between myself and a classmate or photo arts group colleague. Afterwards those women would light up like a Christmas tree whenever I was around. This behavior was always a mystery to me. They must have seen me in a whole different light than I saw myself I guess.
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Old 07-22-2013, 04:16 AM
 
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I know one guy who is late 30s and still a virgin. I don't know if he chose not to be married at this point or to be a virgin, but he's religious and would not ever have sex outside of a marriage.
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