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So, it's kind of a survey. With the recognition that women routinely/frequently get approach by men, can you give us an idea of what your impressions were of the last few guys who showed interest in you; like why you decide the guy was a "no", and what you did to brush him off/let him know you had no interests/opportunity with you?
I'm curious in discovering what the split second thinking was in your recent encounters. doesn't have to make sense, just looking for a snapshot of how women feel (in the moment) about the guys who show interest in you. not really interested in logic and more interested in instinctive, automatic, spontaneous thoughts and reactions.
i tend to think reflexive/unconcious reactions tend to be more revealing.
A guy at the bank asked if his mom asked me if she liked my top. He saw me talking to his mom then when I walked by him that's all he said. One of those odd moments.
He wore a St. Bernard costume for Halloween and mooned me at a glass door.
Generally guys who 'approach' me are some combination of these (usually not both of the last two in one person -- actually they would get points for the time traveling).
Generally guys who 'approach' me are some combination of these (usually not both of the last two in one person -- actually they would get points for the time traveling).
Thanks for your honesty.
What's your guess of the percentage of guys who show interest in you are in your "zone"; say like 5 of out 100 guys who showed interest?
Let's see. The guy who approached me this morning said, "Hey, how old are you?"
I asked how old he was and he said, "twenty-three."
I said, "I have more than a decade on you."
He said, "For real? You look early 20s....Are you married?"
I lied and said, "Yes."
He said, "That's what's up" and walked away.
He is typical of the guys who approach me and why I never have a date. I don't know why more appropriate guys don't ask me out.
This pretty much sums it up. The most extreme case was a guy who looked about 13 or 14, following me on a sting-ray bike. When he asked me my age, I told him I had about 30 years on him. That didn't stop him. He followed me on the bike, begging me to be his girlfriend, saying, "I'm a lot older than I look, too!".
This pretty much sums it up. The most extreme case was a guy who looked about 14, following me on a sting-ray bike. When he asked me my age, I told him I had about 30 years on him. That didn't stop him. He followed me on the bike, begging me to be his girlfriend, saying, "I'm a lot older than I look, too!".
You can't make this stuff up!
haha, you should have said call me when you can buy me a drink and we'll talk!
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