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Old 07-30-2013, 07:35 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Someone who boils bunnies aka serial killer in training.
Or commonly known as very loco women. Always need to watch out for the quiet ones.
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Old 07-30-2013, 07:47 AM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Shy, probably. Introverted/quiet, definitely. I'm quiet/introverted myself, so it works for me. My best relationships have been with introverts. I've also dated extraverts, and that works too, but is a little harder since I do need down time.
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Old 07-30-2013, 07:51 AM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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I heard from many guy friends that shy women are the wildest in bed. If i were a dude, i'd be the player type, so i would pursue a shy chick! opposite attracts
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Old 07-30-2013, 07:56 AM
 
Location: Midwest
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Would you date or form a relationship with a quiet/shy girl? A girl who doesn't talk much or doesn't share much of herself.
I'm a quiet and somewhat shy woman. However, once I'm comfortable with people I open up and if I feel "safe" I will completely open up and are willing to share anything with someone who makes me feel that way. Even though in the beginning I don't make much eye contact and just smile and stair at the ground, but always making sure I'm polite, I'm still very quiet.

I find once your comfortable with someone and know that they aren't going to hurt you, you'll open up and become a tiger.
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Old 07-30-2013, 08:24 AM
 
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I've had mixed experiences with the shy/introverted types. The majority I've tried talking to were met with very snarky remarks with no hint of humor at all. Not sure what that was about. Only one I can recall was actually a bit of a Final Fantasy fan, and I chalked it up to something she can't really talk about with her gal pals since it's a videogame.

Remember, in the 90s, women gamers was some form of blasphemy before it became totally mainstream. For women, the shaming was far worse than with guys in my neck of the woods. Sometimes, I wish tech was advanced when I was a late teen or I was born ten years later, haha.
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Old 07-30-2013, 08:52 AM
 
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Well, by that logic you could date ugly, fat, poor, dirty, homeless, drug addicted, felons, sex offenders or stupid people too hoping that at some point they'll surprise you!
Ummm....no, some behaviors are changeable and some are not. Being quiet is something that can change one you get to know someone. Many of the individuals you have list do not change or it is highly unlikely that they will change
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Old 07-30-2013, 01:26 PM
 
Location: Southeast Arizona
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The only problem I have with them is that you can never know where they stand, in regards to you or put it in detail.
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Old 07-30-2013, 03:07 PM
 
Location: NY
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She and introverted people generally are open and talkative to people who fall within their comfort circle. That circle just tends to not be all that big.

If you were dating one, and within a few dates could build the trust level with that person, they would become open with you and communicate.

So I see no reason not to date someone shy or introverted for that reason alone.
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Old 07-30-2013, 07:23 PM
 
Location: all over the place (figuratively)
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lol at the bunny boiler. And yes, many guys would date a shy girl. Its niot as if she has to do anything more than sit there and look pretty, for guys to approach anyway.
On average, shy or introverted women are less likely than other women to try to make themselves objects of viewers' visual enjoyment.

Would I date one? If physically attracted enough and confident that one-on-one conversation would be interesting, not sparse, and often not prompted by me. To me, there's no point of a real relationship without that.
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Old 07-30-2013, 08:07 PM
 
Location: Arizona
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Would you date or form a relationship with a quiet/shy girl? A girl who doesn't talk much or doesn't share much of herself.
Its expected to be shy at first so yes but if she is always shy and can't open up that can be a problem.
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