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Date one? Of course! I fell in love with one once. It never panned out, and she still doesn't talk to me after I told her my feelings, more than a year now.
Shy girls, I will say, are difficult to talk to. The one I was into was hard to get to know, and no matter how much I tried to get her to so much as speak to me she wouldn't.
Awww, I'm so sorry.
That is good that you told her your feelings.
Why won't she talk to you? Did you do her wrong?
Awww, I'm so sorry.
That is good that you told her your feelings.
Why won't she talk to you? Did you do her wrong?
I like to hope that I didn't. But it's a long story.
A few years ago I met her in a geology class that we were both in, I was the unconfident fat guy back then. I couldn't talk to her, she was just too cute. We chatted a little, but, I just couldn't get up the courage. She is a cousin of a late friend of mine.
I messaged her a couple more times afterward, telling her how I was in the aftermath of my grandma's passing, she says nothing. I leave her alone for the rest of the year, message her again at Christmas, still nothing. The whole time I longed for her in 2011-2012 she was into another guy, but a guy who was taken and treated her like crap in the past.
Maybe in a way I alienated her, I probably did, but the silent treatment I got I don't think I deserved in the slightest.
I like to hope that I didn't. But it's a long story.
A few years ago I met her in a geology class that we were both in, I was the unconfident fat guy back then. I couldn't talk to her, she was just too cute. We chatted a little, but, I just couldn't get up the courage. She is a cousin of a late friend of mine.
I messaged her a couple more times afterward, telling her how I was in the aftermath of my grandma's passing, she says nothing. I leave her alone for the rest of the year, message her again at Christmas, still nothing. The whole time I longed for her in 2011-2012 she was into another guy, but a guy who was taken and treated her like crap in the past.
Maybe in a way I alienated her, I probably did, but the silent treatment I got I don't think I deserved in the slightest.
I'm sorry that you had so much going on. That is a lot to deal with. Also sorry that your friend died and your Grandma too.
Doesn't sound to me like you did her wrong.
You did the right thing by later letting her know- why you hadn't been around. Also contacting her again at Christmas to say hi. She should of gotten back to you and tell you something. I agree you didn't deserve the silent treatment.
I dated a guy towards the end of this past year who just all of a sudden stopped talking to me and never gave me an explanation as to why. Last I heard from him at all was- right after New Years he was gone skiing and never told me. He said he would call me that weekend but he never did. I really thought he was "the one" for me. I was really starting to care for him.
Out of the blue he called me last week- and mentioned how he had been out of state for the last 6-7 months. Who goes out of town for that length of time. He was acting as if we had talked recently and how he hoped I would call him back. I think that was very wrong of him to just stop talking to me in the first place without a reason. At this point I haven't called him back. Why would you ignore a girl for 6-7 months that you sopposedly really like? I'm sure he could of called me during that time he was sopposedly gone. What does he think- I've been sitting around for the last 6-7 months waiting for him to call me. I eventually moved on and tried to stop thinking about him. What other choice did I have. I'm thinking if he genuinely truly cares he wont give up on trying to talk to me just yet.
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Shy girls who are sweet can be extremely cute and attractive, IMO
