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Old 07-29-2013, 09:13 PM
 
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Would you date or form a relationship with a quiet/shy girl? A girl who doesn't talk much or doesn't share much of herself.
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Old 07-29-2013, 09:15 PM
 
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Often shy people are shy mainly with strangers. They tend to open up with friends. Once you break the ice and gain their confidence, they may even be fun and outgoing. It tends to be a matter of comfort level with shy people.
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Old 07-29-2013, 09:18 PM
 
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Yes.
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Old 07-29-2013, 09:21 PM
 
Location: Southeast Arizona
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Would you date or form a relationship with a quiet/shy girl? A girl who doesn't talk much or doesn't share much of herself.
Date one? Of course! I fell in love with one once. It never panned out, and she still doesn't talk to me after I told her my feelings, more than a year now.

Shy girls, I will say, are difficult to talk to. The one I was into was hard to get to know, and no matter how much I tried to get her to so much as speak to me she wouldn't.
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Old 07-29-2013, 09:30 PM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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Often shy people are shy mainly with strangers. They tend to open up with friends. Once you break the ice and gain their confidence, they may even be fun and outgoing. It tends to be a matter of comfort level with shy people.
Exactly. I don't see the appeal of being with someone who's always going to be closed off to you.
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Old 07-29-2013, 09:34 PM
 
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I would hope most guys would say yes as I am quiet/shy.
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Old 07-29-2013, 09:35 PM
 
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Exactly. I don't see the appeal of being with someone who's always going to be closed off to you.
Right. Actually, it's some of the more outgoing, gregarious people who can be closed off. They may be superficially chatty, but when you try to develop a deeper relationship with them, they wall that part of themselves off. Sometimes they even wall it off from themselves.
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Old 07-29-2013, 09:36 PM
 
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Often shy people are shy mainly with strangers. They tend to open up with friends. Once you break the ice and gain their confidence, they may even be fun and outgoing. It tends to be a matter of comfort level with shy people.
This is me.
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Old 07-29-2013, 09:40 PM
 
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Would you date or form a relationship with a quiet/shy girl? A girl who doesn't talk much or doesn't share much of herself.
If she was nice, kindhearted, and affectionate to me, then sure, absolutely Shy girls who are sweet can be extremely cute and attractive, IMO
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Old 07-29-2013, 09:41 PM
 
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NEVERRRRRR!

I sat next to a super shy quiet girl for an entire year once in a class

it was sooooooo boring, she was sooooooooo boring, I had more interesting conversations with the people behind me(one of which I had mutual dislike with that fizzled out that year and the other of which I didn't like and didn't want to deal with more than I had to)
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