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Old 08-16-2013, 03:32 PM
 
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I've been dating a girl for 3 months. During that time we were exclusive. We had a little fight and she broke up with me. A month later she called and wanted to get back together. So I did. On our third day back together I asked her if she dated anyone else during our time off. She said yes. I asked her if they had sex, she said yes, but started to get defensive and agitated.

Mind you, this is a woman that I have sex with and therefore feel I need to know about her recent sexual history. So I further asked her, when did she stop having sex with him. She got up and left and I haven't talked to her since. That was 3 days ago.

Why did she react that way to my questions?
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Old 08-16-2013, 03:37 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Because it is none of your business?

She can do whatever she wants after breaking up with you. If I were her, I probably wouldn't even have told you that she saw somebody else.

Why do you need to know about her recent sexual history? Because you planned on having UNPROTECTED sex with her AGAIN? A girl you were just dating for 3 months anyway?
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Old 08-16-2013, 03:42 PM
 
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Because it is none of your business?
Of course it's my business. I'm [Mod cut: Language inappropriate] her so it's my business. And yes, she's on the pill, so no condom is used.

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Old 08-16-2013, 03:43 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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UGH.

Better get checked for STD's.
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Old 08-16-2013, 03:44 PM
 
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UGH.

Better get checked for STD's.
This is why it's my business. This is why I asked her about her recent sexual history. Starting to get the picture?
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Old 08-16-2013, 03:45 PM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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I've been dating a girl for 3 months. During that time we were exclusive. We had a little fight and she broke up with me. A month later she called and wanted to get back together. So I did. On our third day back together I asked her if she dated anyone else during our time off. She said yes. I asked her if they had sex, she said yes, but started to get defensive and agitated.

Mind you, this is a woman that I have sex with and therefore feel I need to know about her recent sexual history. So I further asked her, when did she stop having sex with him. She got up and left and I haven't talked to her since. That was 3 days ago.

Why did she react that way to my questions?
She sounds like a skank, move on.
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Old 08-16-2013, 03:45 PM
 
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She sounds like a skank, move on.
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Old 08-16-2013, 03:48 PM
 
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So if she would have told you she slept only with one guy and only once, you would be sure she is CLEANER as if she slept with him 10 times?

What about the 100+ guys she might have slept with before you met her??
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Old 08-16-2013, 03:50 PM
 
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What about the 100+ guys she might have slept with before you met her??
We were both tested before we started having sex.
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Old 08-16-2013, 04:38 PM
 
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Of course it's my business. I'm [Mod cut: Inappropriate language] her so it's my business. And yes, she's on the pill, so no condom is used.
Why would she not use a condom just because she's on the pill?

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