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Old 08-31-2013, 09:41 AM
 
Location: On the Chesapeake
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No. Duh.
The above.


Honest to God do some of you guys have to have directions printed out for you?

 
Old 08-31-2013, 10:24 AM
 
Location: My House
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The above.


Honest to God do some of you guys have to have directions printed out for you?
Yes. They do.


OP? It's fine. If she really likes you, this is NOT a big deal.
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Old 08-31-2013, 10:37 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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You did the right thing. Don't listen to your idiot friends. A date is not an invitation to assault her.
 
Old 08-31-2013, 12:24 PM
 
Location: San Francisco
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Quick question... Does this girl have her own house/apartment, or is this a dorm or college apartment/roommate kind of situation? In other words... Was the bed the only viable option for watching a movie? If so, I wouldn't make assumptions.
 
Old 08-31-2013, 01:56 PM
 
Location: My House
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Quick question... Does this girl have her own house/apartment, or is this a dorm or college apartment/roommate kind of situation? In other words... Was the bed the only viable option for watching a movie? If so, I wouldn't make assumptions.
I was wondering the same thing.
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Old 08-31-2013, 02:19 PM
 
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You shouldn't risk it to offend her by initiating sex to soon. Even if it seems like an "invite" to it, who is to know she might just have been testing you to make sure that you are not one of those guys who push for sex early on?
 
Old 08-31-2013, 02:26 PM
 
Location: On the Chesapeake
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You shouldn't risk it to offend her by initiating sex to soon. Even if it seems like an "invite" to it, who is to know she might just have been testing you to make sure that you are not one of those guys who push for sex early on?
And I'm sure that she would have been unable to say "No" had she been doing so and he became too advanced. Mute or something, probably.


Jesus, for a generation raised on self esteem you guys really lack self-confidence or the ability to take a chance. This spreads across all aspects of life. Yet you want the corner office 14 minutes after starting your job.
 
Old 08-31-2013, 02:30 PM
 
Location: In nature
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If I'm inviting a guy into my bedroom he better be getting down to business. And I mean down.
 
Old 08-31-2013, 02:32 PM
 
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Ruth4truth is right though -- it would not matter in the least that the woman invited the man into her bed, she can still claim he raped her or tried to rape her if he made a move on her.

It would be smartest for the guy to just let the woman make all the moves especially since he barely knows this woman.
 
Old 08-31-2013, 02:34 PM
 
Location: Soldotna
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Gratification is always better when it has been delayed.

Shrug...
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