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Old 08-30-2013, 08:34 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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After ice skating we went back to her apartment and decided to watch some TV while laying her bed. I decided to respectful and not try for anything because it was only our 2nd date. Now I feel terrible like I should of at least pursued something. I wanted to be respectful and everything, but I'm starting to realize that my thoughts are BS sometimes. Sometimes you just have to be a man.

Is it weird that I had her in bed and didn't try to do anything?

we're in our early 20's & i did kiss her when i left.

 
Old 08-30-2013, 08:37 PM
 
Location: Pa
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No. Duh.
 
Old 08-30-2013, 08:38 PM
 
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Should've tried to give her some vitamin D
 
Old 08-30-2013, 08:40 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I wouldn't unless she gave me some obvious signs.....
 
Old 08-30-2013, 08:40 PM
 
Location: The Midwest
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Not at all. Take it slow.
 
Old 08-30-2013, 08:52 PM
 
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Originally Posted by andrewC7 View Post
Now I feel terrible like I should of at least pursued something.
don't feel terrible. mistakes are only terrible if you don't learn from them.

next time your in a girls bed, or if she's in your bed, just make a move. now you know.
 
Old 08-30-2013, 08:57 PM
 
Location: Maryland
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I think at a minimum a little playfulness wouldn't have hurt.
 
Old 08-30-2013, 08:58 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I think at a minimum a little playfulness wouldn't have hurt.
Touch a boob?
 
Old 08-30-2013, 09:00 PM
 
Location: Alexandria, VA
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Should've tried to give her some vitamin D
Maybe they were watching Django Unchained. He could've given her the Django - the jango is silent.
 
Old 08-30-2013, 09:00 PM
 
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Originally Posted by bluevalentine1986 View Post
don't feel terrible. mistakes are only terrible if you don't learn from them.

next time your in a girls bed, or if she's in your bed, just make a move. now you know.
who says he even made a mistake? if he likes her and she likes, then she'll appreciate his self control.

I have always waited longer than the very first time a woman has shown interest, and I've never been the worse for wear.
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